Happiness is a feeling that gives you pleasure. When we were in primary school we used to think that we will be happy when we'll be in high school. In highschool we used to think that we'll be happy when we will be in college/ university. Then in college/university we used to think that after getting job we will be happy. After job we relate happiness with our marriage. But in our whole life we can't achieve the happiness we wanted. Do we really want happiness? What we are running for? Remember one thing. Happiness is not in the things we want to get but happiness is giving value to the things we have.

I am sure you have heard it many times that "Money can't buy happiness". This quote reminds me a story of a King. He was the richest person in the world. But he was not happy. He can get everything he wanted but still that things didn't make him happy. Someone told him to meet an old wise man living in a jungle. He went to meet him in jungle and saw him on meditation. King told the old man that he is the richest person in the world but these materialistic things can't make him happy. The old wise man asked him about the most expensive thing he has. King replied that he has "Koh E Noor" (the most expensive diamond in the world). The old man told him to bring that diamond. He said he will tell the secret to happiness after seeing that diamond. In order to know the secret, King brought the diamond to the old man.

Old man saw that diamond carefully and then ran away with it. King was so shocked and worried. He too started running behind the old man and begging to give the diamond back. The old man climbed on a tree. King was fat enough that he can't climb the tree and started begging from below. The old man said I am not gonna give it to you, just go back. King offered him money in return of that diamond. But old man didn't accept that offer. Then after some time, old man said: Ok I will return you the diamond but first draw some lines with your nose on the ground. King did that immediately. After that old man gave him back the diamond. The King was so relieved and happy. Old man then said: This is the happiness you are feeling now. I just wanted to show you what happiness is. Happiness is not getting the things you want but happiness is giving the value to the things you have.

Anyways this was a story which teaches us what happiness is. But due to my experience I can say that there are three rules to follow for a happy life.

#1 Ignore The Thinking Of "What Will People Think?"

Just ignore the people and do whatever you want. I know here in our society (specially in underdeveloped countries) we don't do many things just by a reason that "what people will think?". To me, just fvk the people and do whatever you want. I know people talk behind us. But remember one thing that they talk "behind" you. And that's the reason they are "behind" you and you are "ahead" of them.

I don't know who derived the classes like: Lower Class, Middle Class and Uper Class. But I noticed that this mentality of "what people wil think" is purely in the middle class. The lower class don't give a fvk to people. The uper class has enough money that they don't give any chance to people to talk anything against him. The middle one is the class who always worried of people and their thinking. So 1st secret to happiness is to ignore the people.

#2 Be Original

Just be original. Do you know why someone be fake? People become fake just to please other and to hide their inferiority. Dont do that. Everyone has some type of weaknesses but use those weaknesses as Power. I am too short highted. People bully me for that reason. But now I am immune to that. And they don't bully me anymore because they know I am not gonna irritate now. So be original.

#3 One Life

The 3rd rule to follow for happiness is to realize that you have only one life. When you realize that you have only one life, then you start doing whatever you want, whatever makes you happy. You are not gonna live again. So live life like its your last day.

If you follow these rules then I assure you that you gonna be happy always. And that's it for today guys. Hope you like it. And I am open for sponsorship guys 😉

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