My saturday a very tiring day
Hello my beautiful read cash fam!
How are you everyone?How was your saturday went on?I hope you all had a great day ,well me?I have a very tiring day but still I am grateful and thankful even if I get tired coz I know I just need to rest for a while and the tiredness I have will gone.And ready to face the another day come.
So ,how's my saturday?
As usual ,I need to wake up early not just to update my read cash but also I prepared my husband 's breakfast.I wake up at 4 in the morning .I cooked rice and viand for husband and for the whole family so that when they already wake up and wanted to have their breakfast ,theres already a ready food for them.While waiting for the water to boiled for our coffe ,I was writing and article and after that I was trying to read some articles too and was able to reply some of your comments.
This saturday also was our niece birthday ,she is the younger sister of Jade our engineer.She was celebrating her 20th birthday ,so it means I and Jade will be going to have a busy day today.I was happy that Jade was already how to cooked ,even before when we had a celebration he is the who helped me in the kitchen .I asked him about the food we wil prepare and he told me tha e will be the to cook the afritada and pancit and I for the pork nilaga and rice.After I prepared all the ingredients ,washed the meat that will be going to cook ,I prepared also my laundary ,since its saturday and its my laundry day.
Since its still early to cook anyway ,we prepared it for our lunch ,I prepared my laundry at binabad muna ang puting damit .And started to washed with soap to our colored clothes.When its already 10 in the morning ,started to cooked and able to finished around 11:30 ,and it was ready for our lunch.
We prepred chicken afritada,pancit bihon ,pork nilaga and grilled fish and chicken.Jade also bought a cake and I ordered puto flan from our nieghbor and the father of the celebrant bought pizza.Preparing the table is one thing I love to do ,I 'd love to arranged the food and put something for a good presentation .
After we had our lunch ,I cleaned the table and washed all the utensils we used then I let my son to fall asleep for me to continue my laundry .When my baby was already sleeping ,I felt sleepy too but I need to washed our laundry so I quicky went to the washing area and finished my laundry.Its almost 5 in the afternoon when I finished my laundry and my baby was awake ,I let him play out side while I was eating snacks.And later on I cooked rice for our dinner.
While we are having our dinner ,my baby was playing the food I told him to stop but he never listen to me ,so decided to stop eating but he suddenly grabbed the plate with food on it and threw it and I get mad of him and spank a little his hands ,he was crying and my mother in law quickly get him in my hands and told my baby "who fought you baby?"then my baby replied "mama" then my inlaw said to him "your mother don't love you anymore" I felt bad when I heard those words and answered "If I did'nt love you ,I will not disipline you".I was annoyed and getting upset when I heard what she told my son ,I don't want that my son will think that way everytime I stop his bad things done ,I want to disipline my son.Honestly ,those words makes me feel super tired ,I can take all the body pain I have that time but not those annoying words.Thats one of my problem to my mother in law ,I know that she love my kids but I don't wanted then to grow older with out disipline,I wanted to follow how my parents raised us .I wanted to displine my kids for their own good ,I don't want them to grow thinking those bad things a good one for them.
Am I really bad mother?I'm just doing the right thing for my son.I am sorry if I was sharing you all here this coz honestly ,I don't have someone to talk to about this and I don't want also to share this at social media ,I am so thankful now that after wring this I feel fine and relief the pain I had .I was not thinking anymore the pain in my back ,I was thinking that tomorow maybe my mother in law will not gouing to talk to me ,ganyan ugali nun baka hindi na niya ako kausapin ,hopefully I am wrong ,hoping that she will talk to me and forget this little things happened to us.Ayaw ko kasing mag tanim ng sama ng loob ,gulay at bulaklak lang gusto kung itanim haha!
And thats all for today ,thank you for spending your time to read my article ,I am going back to sleep now and tried to read your works later.
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Thank you for your love and support,GOD bless us all!
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