Hey!!Hey!! Hey!! Hephep hoooray!!!!!Hello everyone how was your day today? I hope your all doing good ,hhmmm me?well im so busy today i am preparing for my son's 5th birthday ,for this article ,i wanna share about him and as a parents ,how we raised him .Im not good in writting but i still try (trying hard yan hahah)i hope you enjoy it ..
I prepared a simple lunch for the famiy,simple lang kasi we are facing a pandemic now ,krisis tayo eh ,since its a birthday hindi mawawala ang cake ,he requested me a costumized cake with a motorcycle design ,but its ecpensive ,so hanap paraan ang mama parang bdo lang no ?i find way hihihi ,i bought a cheaper one then i also bought a motorcycle toy ,tsanaaannn happy na siya.
Time flies so fast,parang kahapon lang karga karga ko pa siya ,and i i already have a liitle binata na.Wayback last July 21 ,2016 i gave birth to a little boy,we named him Ronald Dave,it took me two days in labour.Its not easy during the labour and the delivery ,the pain grabi ang ang sakit ,sabi nga nila "pagnanganak ka nasa hukay na ang kabila mong paa"imagine how painful it is ,if your already a mom you know how much the pain but it all wort it when you saw your child at the first time ,parang nawawala lahat ng sakit.The doctor decided na manganganak ako through C-section hindi ko kaya manganak ng normal maliit daw sipit ,so i signed the waver given by the nurse and they are looking for my husband (That time we are not yet married)to sign the waver also ,but they dd'nt find my husband kasi pala ,my husband was looking for signal ,theres no signal in the hospital,kinokontak niya family niya to ask some money kasi ma Cs daw ako not enough kasi yung pera namin.And then while the nurse are busy looking for my husband ,i closed my eyes and pray to our almighty GOD ,asking and begging na ma normal ang delivery..Hindi ko namalayan nakatulog pala ako ,nagising nalang ako kasi parang may pumatong sa akin and the midwife or doctor ba yun said "cge push "para nagulat ako ayun binigay ko lahat lahat ng lakas ko sa ere,I thank GOD he answered my prayer quickly.at ayun na nga lumabas na ang little boy namin.
As a first time parent nahirapan ako pero nakaya din naman,were so happy to have our 1st baby,he was a healthy baby ,mabilis ang development niya ,at 3 months marunong na siyang dumapa ,sobrang madaldal at masayahin ,gusto niya lagi siyang kinakausap but when he was 1 year old ,naging sakitin siya,hindi ko alam kong bakit madalas kaming pumunta sa pedia kompleto nman sa bakuna at vitamina and to the point na naging malnourished na siya .Isa sa naging benificiary na ADRA an organization na thier layunin is to no more malnourished children.Sa awa ng diyos naging normal na ang kalusugan nya when he was two years old.My son is energetic,masayahin a very sporty kid and a fast learner too.Mahilig sumayaw at kumanta ,ewan ko nga kung san nagmana yan hahahah.
How we raised him?At the young age ,when his 2 year old i enrolled him to a public daycare center kasi wala siyang kalaro sa amin ,siya lang kasi ang bata ,and i think kailangan nyang mag explore sa school mag enjoy siya at the same time may matutunan din siya.Hindi naman siya masyadong nahirapan kasi sa bahay tinuturoan namin siya.
Children now adays are more expose of gadgets ,in my child's case ,we parents let him use cellphone but in moderation ,kasi aminin nating mga parents ,na may matutunan sila sa paggamit ng cellphone but they need our guidance as a parents ,all in moderation .Because of using gadgets marami din siyang natutunan ,isa na dyan ang pagsasalita ng english ,alphabets counting numbers and marami pa ,tinuturo ko din naman yan sa kanya ,siguro mas madali nyang maintindihan pag naka COCOMELON nad Chuchutv yan hahha.We expose him out side ,letting him to play outside even he gets dirts,thats part of thier childhood.
As parents we always teach him good manners teach him to pray,learn his mistakes ,we teach him some of the house chores.Hes the one keeps his mess after playing.
Our goal as parents is not to raised a great kids but to its to raise our kids who became a great adult.
And now that he's already 5 year old marami na siyang natutunan and this coming school year ,he's already a kindergarten student.I think he's ready for another steps of his life.
Parents can only give a good advise or put them in the right path,but the final forming of a persons character lies in thier own hands.
Thats all for my son's birthday,wish him a happy birthday😁😊Thank you for reading my article .
Stay safe and God bless
Yey! Happy birthday to your son and more birthdays ahead of him. Praying for great health and happiness all the time to him, to you and to the family.