Family are like a supporting pillar that will help us during the hard time. The one who will push us to the right track and the one who will first shower us with love.
They are the first one who will advice and guide us on what to do. The affectionate hands we used to touch when we are child. The one who will encourage, inspire and persuade us on achieving our dreams or even making right decisions
But what if your support became your doom? The hands you used to love is the first one who pushes you to bring yourself down,to put off your self esteem and even shut down the courage you used to gather.
It is sad that there families that discourage their own family member in order for them to live in a comfortable life. The one will greedily set aside their family just for their own personal desires. And the one who is willing to sacrifice their own flesh and blood just for the sake of little luxury. This kind of atitude and mentality are applicable to all such as parents, siblings, grandmother, grandfather, aunties or uncle.
A family should be the source of support, affection, good morals and conduct in order for the child to grow and be competent, productive, affectionate, and understanding.
Sadly, even blood relations can't stop the evil thoughts of a person. An evil person will make an insult and hostile comments to everyone who they think is hateful. A person who is willing to left everyone for their own fulfillment, entertainment, and for their own definition of fun.
They are the ones who are willing to push down anyone just to lift up themselves to everybody.
A blood relation is not enough to tie down a person. It is not enough reason to stop their own hostile comments and evil minds. And not enough reason for them to be good to you.
A person is still a person, they had their own thoughts, ideas, entertainment, needs and wants. Regardless of what families they belong or even if you have any connection among them, it is not an exception.
For me the only thing we could do is to be sincere and earnest in every actions you will take. Make them realize that they are not the one who can drag you down. And no matter what they say or they do, show them that it is not enough to stop you to achieve your own goals.
Making an effort to drag down a sincere person will be futile. Because no matter how dark the shadow that looms over you, as long as there is a tiny light, you will shine.