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The Most Vital: Why Any Institutions Doesn't Teach This `March 27, 2022 - Sunday, 06:20 AM` In our precious lives, we are made from and the result of this special feeling and bond called LOVE. But, why does no one really teach us how vital it is to our personal growth or should I say I was the only one feeling it this the other way around. I mean for sure there are lots of families also who are well educated and didn't failed their childrens to teach this thing to them and make them know the essentials of life while growing.
We all have different practices in our lives, families, schools, religion and all other institutions we could think of regarding this matter. I personally haven't heard and learned it from these institutions I mentioned above because as for me, I gained all of it the hard way, wherein I was being slapped by the harsh realities in life right in front of me by just being exposed into the real stubborn and unequal society. *Now, enough for the fussing intro chill'hustler's and let's head straight to where the fruit is placed in this article.* The Most Vital: Self Love & Care Growing up as a little rebellious son, I didn't take time to even notice or appreciate these things while growing up, maybe because of and from my choices too back then which is very far from what they expected me to be. So, I learned these matter a little too late, but here I am today fully aware of this thing. Why is self love and care vital to our each and everyone's lives? It's because for me, this is where people should rely on as a basis for our happiness. For as long as where doing and pursuing the things and matters the right and legal way in which where not harming and stepping others personal interest and lives too, it's all good if at the end of day, these things makes you genuinely happy.
Here in my beloved country the Philippines, pursuing once happiness is always a step behind because of our old and outdated practices in our families wherein the successes of the family heavily relies on their children, I mean not in general but mostly, especially those who are below the average level. Most family's breadwinners are automatically indebted to the families drive and be on the helm maneuvering to further new heights in life. This sad reality is always the one haunting most young and promising workers in each families, not just the breadwinners but all those who take the responsibilities and obligation to support their love ones. For this sole reason of being relied heavily by their parents, it forces them to even strive their best just to be able to support their own families, it compromises their own personal happiness too. Don't get me wrong, family is their own and main happiness too but personal and mental state is also a serious matter for these individuals and that's why I adore and treat these individuals special. I mean, how can you hate people who never turned their backs from responsibilities and stuff like that wherein they choose to make their families as a priority rather than their own personal happiness chill'hustler's, maybe you'll see none. These practices are very outdated but we can't blame them either, because family love os second to none also. But, we should be aware that our own personal happiness is very vital too, especially for our health. The main problem of these individuals that are beyond responsible to their families are mental state and body health. Most of them are even doing the impossible and doing extra which pushed and overworked themselves just to be able to provide the needs because they can't afford to be chilling though which is very self draining and this is where and why self love and care becomes very vital.
Self love and care is very vital because if you have these two attributes within you, you'll find joy in everything you do because you can appreciate the things that are happening and you'll learn that sometimes it's okay to reward yourself and make it a priority too. In this way, you can refuels yourself with much inspiration and motivation to further bring you and your families to new heights in life. Final Thoughts I have chosen this topic to tackle with because I've been feeling the pressure for the people I know who are really on the hard end of their own personal daily battles in life too this fast few weeks. I'm just here letting y'all know chill'hustler's that we are also capable of breaking down and y'all have nothing to worry about. Just make yourself a priority too, give love to yourself and of all appreciate your efforts, because when everyone stops to believe in us, it is only us that will save and heals our own selves when nobody will do it for us. I personally learn it the hard way in my ten (10) years of working experience away from home and alone in the big cities. Hello there Chill'hustlers!! 🙋🏽♂️ That's it for today and as always, I'm glad you reach the end again, thank y'all for always sharing your day with me, see you on the next one Chill'hustler's. Have a chill vibe month of March and stay hopeful cause better days are comin', Good vibes always, Jah bless and PEACE ✌️!!! 🙏🙇 Adieux..!!! ------------------------------------------ Title : The Most Vital: Why Any Institutions Doesn't Teach This Author : @Carewind - 88th Article March 27, 2022 - Sunday 06:20 AM My Previous Article https://read.cash/@Carewind/a-valentine-story-did-your-plan-worked-on-valentines-day-cdfc85ac#my-previous-articles An Ambivalent Apropos With My Workmate https://read.cash/@Carewind/seven-streams-of-income-iv-5e280bd8#bad-link Seven Streams of Income IV
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Though the culture of "utang na loob" to our parents should never be "outdated", it should not be abused also. Unfortunately, parents, especially in low-income families treat their children as their investments in life. It should not be. On the the other hand, this "utang na loob" to parents should serve as a motivation to the children, not a pressure. It is just right to give back to our parents while they are alive. This should also be a lesson to would-be parents and those who have started their own families. Be financially prepared for the future so that we will not be a burden to our children someday.
Yes JLo, you're right about it, I didn't put it that way though because most of these parents are not educated. But I'm pretty certain that this practices will soon be change with knowledge. Maybe not soon but I'm confident with that. Being financially prepared will be have a better chances for the next generation in our country adding the knowledge and broader government agencies like SSS.
Yes friend you are right hard when alone in life. You sure do every day you always do that alone. It's even worse if you work in a remote area. So our priority should be to love ourselves and above all we should strive for all good works. Because we ourselves will also create and save. No one else will do but ourselves.
Yes friend, we must educate and nurture ourselves to be better and make ourselves our priority before anything else, but we should also make our families second to none when it comes to helping them.
I agree with that, it seems became a responsibility once you are done studying . Need to work hard to give your family this and that. I have that thinking before, the reason why I married a little bit late compare to my sisters.
Yes lods, some even came to a point where other parent's treat their children's as investments which is very wrong it needed to be fix soon. But I'm hopeful and certain that it will eventually come in the future.
Medyo okay naman na ngayon so far, unlike before. Medyo na influence na kasi tayo ng financial.literacy. So na prepare na din sa pagtanda ang iba para hindi na burden sa mga anak
Yes lods, pero sa mga educated lang naman talaga, madami sa probensya, wala talaga ganun pa din mindset. Maybe 20-30 years, all pinoys will learn why it is so important to have savings. Hehe
Hehe hoping for that
li rebelious ka pala lods, naalala ko ung kinuweto mo na napasok kayo n lasing. atleast di ka naging barumbado ah
Tigasin lang ang ulo lods, pero di barumbado! Sadyang iba gusto ko sa mga gusto ng mama at papa ko, hehe
oo ung iba naiging barumbado e
Ganun nangyayari pag nawala ang respeto sa magulang lods, ako hindi naman. I'm always obeying my father, dahil barangay councilor siya tas hawak nya peace and order committee. Pag nagloko ako, siya mismo dadampot sakin lods hehe
More pain means more gain. We ought to become more responsible for anything. You've gaining so many experiences because you gotta do stuffs in front of everyone. Keep grinding up carewind
You're right akagaminoDneloy, I'm always grinding my friend.
Aside from being forced from responsibilities for the family, Filipinos have this core value of giving back, the close ties of the families affect the decision of the members that sometimes overlook themselves and go on for the sake of their loved ones. Yes, we should not forget to love ourselves despite those responsibilities. It's vital for our good as individual. Nice article lods👏👏
Yes lods, you nailed it! That's the saddest part in our families practices wherein in some situations especially the poorest of the poor, they don't have any choice but to move forward with their family on their backs. Soon, we can all be self dependent with the help of education and technology lods. Thanks for appreciating lodi! ;)
Mejo pasaway ka ba, lods Carewind? 😬
Nasa gitna na push button nalang lods, kung nagkasala lang ako ng illegal or nakakita ng gulo, mukhang lagot na talaga ako sa parents ko. Hehe
We need our family in every part of our life even after getting married and having children because when we were young they take full responsibility for us.