How I See Men Break's in Secrecy
January 29, 2022 - Saturday, 11:00 AM
In a society we live in today were men are being generally seen and judge as strong and with a great psyche, others won't see and notice when and why men break's and choose to hide it.
Men are born special and are twinned with the responsibilities in the family as it is the practice in all mankind even in animals. Being a men isn't as simple as counting numbers from 1 to 10 but it also comes with great pride and honor especially you will be the one bringing your family's name to its glory. But, men are also human beings with emotions and feelings that may sometimes neglected by the people that surrounds them.
Today, I'm going to share my personal experience and understanding why men choose to hide their pains and breakdowns.
The Signs of Breakdown
Same with most people, men are mostly easy going and always fun searching but once they stop doing all of those stuffs they usually do or a quick change in habits, that's the time a men is struggling. Either it might be personal, family related problems or special relationships and the sad thing about it is men tend to always not show or tell it to anyone, not a single glimpse of it at all.
How They Runaway With It
To be honest, this one is so tricky and like I said earlier, men are good in hiding their breakdowns. It's like a hit of illegal drugs in most cases. Others may totally loss the motivation to continue what they are used to doing, while others also tend to be more focus on the things they rarely do in the past.
In most occasions when I notice a certain men neighbor or a friend is struggling (marites style hehe), they always run to vices that may lock him for a little while. Wether it's on gambling, partying and worst case involvement in drugs and mischief. It's mostly the case I see to somehow redirect or mislead what a men is suffering and escape the real world for short period of time. But little did they know it will drown them even more later on.
The Right Approach
When you notice someone who is on a bad state of life wether it's a man or woman, in a mental or emotional struggles, ask the person directly what's bothering him at that moment, make them feel they are not alone and that's it's okay to struggle, for that's normal in our lives. Motivate them and share your genuine thoughts of experience in life that you think are essential and fitting to his/her current state.
Pride always ate's men slowly and if not always most of the time for it is what the society teach men's to take pride is everything they do, but then again once he learn to accept the situation he is in, then that's the time it flips the situation he's in.
Most importantly love yourself more when no one does and always believe in what you are capable of doing. For in time's of loneliness a strong mind is always an inch harder to break than others and lock it with a firm and unending faith to the one up above, Our Almighty GOD.
Author's View
Let me remind again everyone that what have you read above are all my personal views and experience in life.
"Breakdowns are normal but for someone to struggle alone is a hard situation and position to be in. Learn to share what you are going through each day and trust more people, surround yourself with the right people and tighten up that support system you currently have." - Carewind
When everything is falling apart and you feel your already at the buttom, mind you that once your already down the only way is up. Its the same with crypto on a bearish market, once it dips get ready for the pumps.
Hello there Chill'hustler's!!🙋🏽♂️ As always, I'm glad you reach the end again, thank y'all for always sharing your day with me, see you on the next one Chill'hustler's. Have a chill vibe day and weekend ahead, stay hopeful cause better days are comin', Good vibes always, Jah bless and PEACE ✌️!!! 🙏🙇
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Title : How I See Men Break's in Secrecy
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Not everyone but most of the boys hide their pain to everyone, hide their sadness by a smile. They distract themselves from their real problem. And that's the saddest part because our society ays that a man should be strong physically, mentally and emotionally