What Else Can She Offer

It is true that so many of us are made to believe that girls part in a relationship, are confined to just only satisfying a man's stomach and sexual desires.

So many of us, now believe that girls can't offer anything aside from that. If you pay more attention to random talks about relationships, especially from the lips of young guys., You would hear them often say, "apart from sex, what else can a girl offer?"

Most of you think and feel most or all girls are just after the money, and are lazy creatures that just bug around a guy because of his money, with nothing to give out in return, aside from sexual pleasure.

I'm glad and happy to tell you that, that is a BIG FAT LIE.

Whoever still dwells on this mentality, that girls can only offer/ girls only offer sexual desires, lacks the understanding of who a real woman is, and the potentials embedded in a woman.

Women are masterly crafted humans, that are made to fit in and adapt to any situation in life. From poor to average, to rich. They are geniuses!

No man is ready to suffer in abject poverty with someone, even if his mom and not nag or prove stubborn.

Now., The ability for a lady to be able to suffer or stick with a man in poverty is not that she has nothing doing that can help out, or she is lazy and unreasonable.

No!

Now, let me quickly bring to the limelight the two (2) types of ladies or women in the world.

1.. The value-added ladies.

2.. The value draining ladies.

The value-added ladies, have a lot of goodies in their backpacks to offer in a relationship, and even in a mere friendship. They are able to adapt too, but they multiply whatever is given to them. These are the type of women you see today that are successful in business, relationships, ministry, careers, and others.

So many of them may not be rich, they may be petty traders but with a one-time encounter with them, you will be able to tell the difference between them and a value-draining woman.

Value-draining women are those ones that are actually the money mongers. Not like they have nothing to offer., But they just don't know how to go about it. They aren't intentional about what value they can offer rather than pleasure.

Just like the value-added women, they are valuable too. They give great advice when they are deeply concerned about you. But they don't do that always because they aren't intentional about doing so. Adding so much value to their man isn't really their thing. They feel it doesn't mean so much in a relationship.

Now what am I saying., No woman is empty, not even a SLOT.

That slot or prostitute could be a mom.,

And trust me, she would give great advice to her children in some way.

Even a witch,

Knows how to care for younger children. So long as they aren't included in her agenda.

The problem is that a great percentage of women today, are more concerned about looks than character. Money than value.

They are more concerned about having a relationship that just entails the man bringing money and them cooking and giving immeasurable pleasure.

They are all valuable, but some of them have refused to see the importance of thinking outside the box quite early.

As a man, having a woman of value, part of your life is priceless. Nothing beats it.

If you are so graced to have one that puts up in a positive way with everyone and everything.

She.,

Is sound morally

Is sound spiritually

Is sound academically

Is sound financially

Is sound business wise and lots more.

My brother., Take it from my dear, you are blessed.

Having a value-added woman is so amazing because she isn't just a partner in bed or spending money. But a partner in problems, happiness, creating more wealth, prayers, understanding, hyping, and lots more.

What more can a man ask for?

When you always say 'what do ladies have to offer"., I guess you should always signify the type of lady you mean.

Because all ladies are never the same. If at all I know anything about women, I can say, my mom, sisters, and some close and very well brought up female friends I know see entirely different and has more than a lot to offer.

The one that loves you is ready to do anything for you. Notwithstanding whether she is value-added or not.

That's just how women are. Even when not morally sound, they can still be termed good in some cases.

It's understandable if you have met some funny ladies in the last that proved incompetent and difficult to tame.

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But it's not advisable to generally say "Girls cant offer anything aside money and pleasure".

There are still good and vision-oriented ladies out there, that their relationships aren't based on money or pleasure, but true love.

There are ladies that aren't money mongers.

There are ladies that are valuable.

There are ladies that are vision and success-oriented.

But as a man, your chances of meeting one is limited, except you too are valuable and not just in for providing money, but intentional about a whole lot of things.

We all have a part to play in relationships. Male and female.

No gender is invalid or invaluable.

We all dish our values in different ways. The difference is that some people aren't just ready and intentional about doing so.

So when you come across this set of people, they should make you term the general gender as "same" because if they're ignorant.

Nah!!

That isn't good, because real, hardworking, and valuable ladies are all out there, waiting to be discovered by their Mr. Right.

As much as you, as a good man, wouldn't like a lady to openly term you as "All men are cheats, or all men are the same"

Please, don't openly destroy your opposite genders too, because you need them most in your lives, much more than the females need you.

Or do you doubt it? 😂

I wouldn't go deeper, those who know, know well enough.

Let us always have this at the back of our minds.

"Every woman is valuable., But there is a limit to the value they can give out, to those around them, based how much self-development and discovery she has undertaken".

Celebrate your woman. They deserve so much more than the love and attention they are shown.

Thanks for reading friends

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25 Nov. 2021, A Candidly publishment.