Trust Issues

However way you look at it, trust is that one thing you don't want to lose when it comes to a relationship, relationships are commitments and commitments are known to strive best on the basis of trust. How do you stay with someone you don't trust, much more commit your heart, time and energy into building a future with him or her. We all need that security of trust, or at least a proof that it can be worked on. Just as a pillar holds a building from collapsing, trust holds a relationship from collapsing too. As much as people change and you can't certainly say if a person would always be trusted or would change soon, but we could try to play safe by choosing someone who is more trustworthy.

If solid relationships of any kind be it family, friends, lovers, business associates, neighbors and so on is going to push forward, then its paramount such relationship is built on trust. Sometimes we need that assurance that we can sleep with our two eyes close or we can be absent and the other partner would do a good job to preserve what they already had going. By far the backbone of every relationship, with trust its sure to be a smooth sailing for the relationship. It goes both ways, both has to trust. Not secluded to marriages alone, relationships varies, the affiliation could be on business purposes, social gathering, church members, school mates, there are so many reason why we relate to people, but to foster the communication deeper and more productive, trust must be involved.

Although mainly we talk on relationships cause that is more sensitive compared to the other forms of relationship. Can I trust you is a summary of most of the questions asked while getting into a relationship, we all want to be sure our hearts are falling for the right person. Well as much as we can't truly trust anyone because we humans are dynamic in nature, since we can't bisect anyone to see who they truly are not just what they claim to be, so we are left with the option to go by what we see, hoping they are being sincere all along. Well judging with the increase amount of heart break and divorce its clearly shown that we often don't judge right. Can I trust you is a question i want to know after I've fallen in love with you.

Those dates we make just to see you again, are mainly having a way to answer the questions of the heart, questions like, do I still love you or I'm I simply infatuated, are we compatible or we're not though I love you and most especially can I trust you?, well this are vital questions we've got to know both male and female, heartbreak is not secluded to a gender alone, although the ladies make it feel as though they experience this more, but the guys actually do experience it more, but the ego makes most swallow the hurt and silently move on. Well I've heard guys cry over heartbreak, even fall sick and to the extent of suicide, so yes both genders have a fair share of this heartbreak, more reason why we want to know can I trust you, as a vital question to be answered.

Trust is the reason why you can get fat in a relationship, no jokes, have you ever dated someone who you aren't sure if he or she is having another affair, especially when their attitude is raising a flag but you have no good evidence, just hoping its not true, this is unhealthy. Few have resulted into not being bothered about the happenings around their spouse, claiming that men would always be men, or girls would always have something to hide, but I ask, are you truly in love?, because if you're in love then jealousy is a character you'll find evident, you don't want the thought of sharing your partner nor even think of it happening, you're ready to fight and push out any external force or person who might want to bring a decline in your love affair.

We want to be sure you're for us alone, then we can sleep and be at peace, then we can eat and get fat. Mistrust or toxic relationship are visibly unhealthy to the body. Our God to start with is a jealous God too, he said thou shall not worship any other God beside me" you see he didn't say, this humans are stubborn creatures, let me just hope they would love me, no, he told us to be either hot or cold, for he doesn't like a lukewarm person, be for him or not. Already he has fought for us and told us that we can trust him, however can he trust us too? We want to know if you're trust worthy before we freely give our heart to you. Therefore everyone should work greatly on themselves in the aspect of being trust worthy. You want someone who you can trust, but can someone trust you too?

In your place of work, the higher and more sensitive task are given to the people or person they can trust, trust to deliver what and when it's needed, most people can do their job description very well, moreover that's why they were employed, because they have proven to be fit for that position, but the skill of being trusted is not common to everyone, some information might be vital and can't be accessible to everyone, some task may be more sensitive and crucial, they need someone who is more trusted to deliver, but you can be singled out after a careful examination of everyone, this shows you've proven yourself, thereby unknowingly creating a better chance to be elevated even before people you met on the job. Be trusted, everyone would be tried, so work on yourself.

We don't often find ourselves doing the right things always, But we can make a choice to be trustworthy, in a relationship, in our walk with God, in our business, and all other aspect, we can choose to be trustworthy. I choose to be with you and so I shut the door to any other, you can trust me to be loyal. Its all a commitment we need people to make, especially in this world of competition but do we want to make such commitments to another person, do we want to make such commitment to our God, do you want to make such pledge to your job. Be loyal, be trustworthy.

Can someone trust you is the question we need to ask ourselves. Do like, comment and subscribe. Stay brilliant guys.