It's a true definition of looks can be deceiving, have you ever seen something so elegant and so wowing but then when you get into it you've just made the biggest mistake of your life? There is always a thin line between poise and poison, little wonder people rarely trust anymore these days, it's as though everyone and everything is acting poised only for them to have their way and become a whole different being entirely, such mistakes are very regrettable and for some dire circumstances very deadly, imagine getting married to a poise but poisonous man or lady, it's another world for risky, taking a vow with the viper himself.
I've met a lot of people and associated with a lot of people, when you do this overtime you'll begin to understand the human nature doesn't mind being deceptive knowingly, underline the word knowingly, its better if someone hurts you and genuinely didn't do so intentionally, this you can get angry, forgive and it's still advisable to give him a second chance to do better, but in cases when the person does it intentionally from the very beginning, boy I advice you run afar. Sadly there are many deceivers out there, they don't mind the extent they would get to just as long as they get their price., it's been an intentional act from the very beginning.
The outward appearance are very lovely and catchy, but don't dive in, it might just be a trap. People really need to be safe and thread carefully. How then do you know if something or someone is being poise but actually Poisonous? It's really not easy to know, it's not thought in schools how to spot one, even the few times when it looks we are uncovering someone as a poise but Poison, there is something in us that resist the urge to accept it and this all because of the quality time spent and preventing the hurt that would proceed the truth, when in fact they are only pushing the hurt to a forwarded date, cause a poison would surely sting.
Be Careful with everyone until proven trustworthy, believe me when I say we all need trustworthy people in our lives, others would say "trust nobody " when in reality we need trusted people around us for us to truly live in peace, imagine living a life where you have to analyze everyone, double everything, indeed this is very cumbersome and we deserve a rest after such tedious task. When you have money but don't trust your family, how can you sleep, you can't trust your friends, you can't trust colleagues nor neighbors and now you're in your house amidst your first family but you can't trust them, believe me such man would lose sleep constantly and doomed.
This is just to prove the point that everyone needs people they can trust, people they can sleep and feel safe around and they haven't disappointed you yet, at least not intentional. People who are poised and peaceful, poised and trusted, so then you can better find out about the nature and character of others. Because being careful is really a great step to discovering and uncovering if a person or something is a poison in disguise. If you're not sure then don't be scared to find out, do a test if possible, you need to know because if they were, they wouldn't feel bad leaving you after they are done with you.
The next and best thing is to be prayerful, I mean this in all sense, if a person decide to play you for a fool, you really aren't so smart to detect except they are so dull to play it right, there is always a way to you especially when you're of value to them. You can't really say this I trust and this I don't, that's why the numbers of betrayals keeps increasing daily because our sense of judgment can be limited, someone somewhere can successfully lie to you and get you, I think you should know the most painful betrayals are from those you trust, yes you judged wrongly., so maybe you are smart but you really can't know until you have a reason to know.
However God has the power to cause every poised but Poisonous fellow to be seen, so we pray to uncover them so we don't waste time with the wrong people. Its easier to deal when their motives Is leading to property loss, fights. Cause there are more severe cases. Man have dated an angel only to married and discover that he really an angel just an angel of darkness, the devil himself and we begin to hope the victim of a wife doesn't end up getting too violated and kill from violence. We hope your trusted friend doesn't do something bad to you cause they know you too well and so they know how best to hurt you.
Poised but Poison is very relatable topic, most people can relate, I bet everyone know a person or two who so disguised in order to get what they want, we need to be careful and prayerful, one we can do and that is being careful, however there is something we require God to help us do in exposing every poison so we don't get hurt, and for this the best we can do to this is to call him in through prayers.
Thank you for reading. I pray you don't encounter someone who is so poised but very Poisonous. Keep supporting.