Sometimes when we examine life, we would feel like somethings are empty, we'd think there are voids, vacuum in some places, slowly we fail to realize that it all has its occupants, there are and would always be inhabitants even as unnoticed and invisible as air. There is something for everywhere, there is something for everyone, there is someone for everyone, nothing was created to be and stay empty, something can fill up the emptiness and someone can fill up the emptiness. The supposed truth remains there is no Vacuum in reality.
It's not good for a man to be alone, so its said in the holy bible, and so a woman was created to fill that emptiness, so the man and the woman alike needs each other for the completion of that satisfactory feeling, I don't care how you think the world have evolved over time but I bet you, only till you get a man or a woman by your side the feeling of completion may never come, a man to man can never bring completion neither can a woman to woman bring it about, to a very large extent you'll need the opposite gender to bring about complete satisfaction.
How else do you defend the need for a sperm donor, if they were truly and honestly satisfied then they can stay forever happy without the need for a man, but then slowly creep reality into certainty, and they begin to see the need for a man, cause the law and order of things wasn't for same sex togetherness, it really isn't the plan of God to mankind, so they would still come back to the normal rule of things and get a man to donate a piece of himself to procreate another life which may bring the satisfaction they need, but truly it still doesn't bring it about.
The male would never be satisfied without a female being for them, already from creation it has been said that man being alone is never right and something urgently was to be done and was indeed done by the emergence of the feminine gender. So when two men decides to live together, it even becomes more evident that they are more incomplete than before, previous it was a single unsatisfaction, but not its double. We can only deny for the longest time but all comes back to reality, all return back to the order of things, a man needing a woman and a woman a man.
There's a stereotype of its good for a people to be alone for sometime to work on theirselves, based on the responsibilities we are always faced with in life, how else do we take care of two when we are not emotionally and financially capable. And this I couldn't agree more, I feel it's TRUE, especially for the Male, just as from creation man has been charge with the duties of the garden before a woman was betrothed to him, so he was firstly responsible then he was capable of taking care of two. If you can't take care of the little with you, how then can you take care of a higher level and a human at that. Learn to be responsible it aids compatibility.
In our society however women are no longer exempted from the duty of responsibility, however it still may not be important for them to attain financial stability before marriage, but please be emotionally stable at the least. I'm guessing this is the one thing we can offer our men, that emotional love and support, however when you're emotionally broken from past, how then do you fully your sole duty as a companion, when you can even be there for him. The man also must be emotionally responsible so he doesn't go sleeping around and give his woman the love and security she needs.
We both need each other, a man needs a woman in his life., and a woman likewise needs a man, there are other reasons a man can desire a man and a woman needing another woman but nothing on the bases of marriage, it believes it creates a void, a void soon needed to be fixed. We could say as long as they are happy then it's fine, but I'll say that's letting momentarily emotions gets in the way of true needs, happiness is subjective and everyone can be happy with anyone both Male and female and I'm talking about true excitements, but when it comes to family, you'd best know that we can go aside from the law put in place by God, that's a man to a woman and the vice versa.
Thank you for reading, this post is simply expressing my opinion, any contrary view should be expressed, however we live and learn everyday.