Hanging On To Hate

When people say "I know how you feel" they could be lying, very minimal they truly know how you feel, we just trying to make you feel better, some things we experience are so painful, we feel like never letting go, we feel like raining curses down till it affects all those who made us feel so, but only when we have super powers right, we don't have super powers so we have to bear with time. Eventually we see there's nothing happening to them soon, moreso they are having the time of their lives and we have been the one hurting through and after the event, now we see reasons not to hang on to hate.

If we have no means to exact vengeance than to wait for God and time to do his and its work, then we must follow leave it to them and carry on with our own lives, and I mean carry on with our lives as one unaffected. Living unaffected isn't a day's job as we all have different healing time space, but we must try to heal quick so we can live life as though there are nothing wrong. This is important for so many reason, hanging on to hate has lead people into deeper trouble, while they see the doers still roaming which leads to more hate, with this we plead that people heal, and let God do his work.

It's also worthy to note that some reasons are not tangible enough to hate, we are only trying to be important, when we think deep about it, we see it makes no sense to hate on the person. For example, when you see teenagers break up from a relationship and they hate the partner, now in this there are no time wastage unlike an adult who is ready and preparing for marriage only to be told by the patner he or she has dedicated years to, that it's no longer possible. Or cases we hear of someone hating on another person because their friends hates the person, still makes no sense to hate.

It's very possible to live a hate free world, with no one you deeply dislike or having bad intentions for, more easier for people who has not been hurt deeply, however those who has been deeply hurt also find time to visit the therapist, cause more than others they understand they need to let go of that burden inside. Hate as invisible as it looks, is very poisonous, and more than the effects it can cause us to harm another, it harms us more. It destroys from inside, till there are no more joy left within, hate is worth dealing with.

When we know that there are more to achieve in life, the goals and objectives we need to accomplish is far more important than letting some one or some events stop our speed. It's more like after they did that wrong to us, we keep on placing each day to their victory. Haven't you seen scenarios were more attention was given to the loser because of his attitude after the game, apparently he has more joy compared to the winner, this goes as far to show that the win is only a title, the true win comes with the happiness from within. No matter what hanging on to hate is like losing over and over again.

Success is the best revenge you must agree with me. So if we are to vexed, wouldn't it be nicest to push to be successful, and when we truly aim towards success, then we have to put aside any and everything that wouldn't make that success achievable. Hate doesn't help success in any form, love does, for the sake of success we have to love, for example, love your job, love who you work with, love that annoying customer, love love love, cause hating would ruin your profits to the bearest minimal, even if it's to learn or act it first, let's try putting aside hates and let love lead.

It's a new week, today we are refreshed, it's no jokes that mondays often feel like the start of a new era, we would be seeing people again today, and still greet like it's been a long time, just cause of the weekend, so Monday is a good time to let loose and let love in. Over 80% of the world's plans kick starts on a Monday, meaning that most people who plan, do plan to kickstart their plans from a Monday, we like it from the very beginning for accountability sake. So yeah, it's a good time to let loose that hate, and let in more love, at least for your own sake and the sake of your joy.

Hate reduces productivity, and your boss doesn't care what's going on with you, he or she is paying you to be productive. Hate produces anger, it most likely makes you exert this anger on your loved ones, leaving them thinking were they got it all wrong. Hate kills joy, most likely stay indoors now, even the few times you stepped out for fun, it really wasn't that fun, cause you didn't let loose. All this while you should know the possible cause of the hate isn't aware and may never care. So take charge of your life, let go what needs to leave. Let go of hate.

Thanks so much for Reading guys. Have a lovely week ahead. Gods love over you all today and every other days. Shalom.