Finding Love Without Money

While some would say this is mission impossible, others would suggest that it's best to find love while at the struggling stage of ones life, so anyone who can stick by you then is sure to always be with you as their love for you is real, money being a very needed can be very deceiving at times. Well I don't know to which school of thoughts you'd pick however everyone should be cautious in the dealings of love in regards to money. Money has no doubt amount to being the most propellant to relationship and marriages, and though we know it's not the best option some of the unions have sustained itself over the years. How much would money influence your decision in going to a relationship?

Of course as a man, we ought to ensure we take in charge of the responsibilities, it doesn't speak well and it's rather unfair to the rest of the household if we can't take care of them or try at least. However there is a process, I mean a time for working and striving, would it be fair to wait until all men are made before they experience love. I don't think so. And by love I don't only mean the relationship love, even in our society, there seems to be no love for the broke. When there is no Money it may seem as though you've lost your voice, and as soon as the money arrives, you see many smiling faces around and begin to wonder if the money announced itself. I'm yet not comfortable with the standards, I'm not sure people are acting rightly.

At first it was annoying, I mean very annoying. The time when you need the love and attention, when you'll know that this love is genuine and true, cause you can't tie their care to anything else but care, you'll see them drifting away, but that moment when you have it already, infact you can get it without ease, and it doesn't matter much to you anymore, boom you start seeing the love all around. No wonder the rich don't care much and act busy to all those many people seeking their attention, where we you all when times were rough? I feel people need to choose from their hearts and not base on pocket sizes.

I don't mean we must love everyone who is broke, because we feel guilty or have pity, what I'm saying is for those who knows how they truly feel about the man, but are depriving theirselves of their heart desires because the man is broke, they aren't judging right. There should be a new judging method, not the usual or causal way as though life is a business transaction. There are more things to appeal to the heart than money, money inclusive but there are other things, things money cannot buy. Money can never create a good man.

I'm disappointment whenever I see parents talk their daughters out of relationships cause the guy is financially incapable. It really gets to me, maybe cause it has happened to me or maybe because I still feel the push back, or maybe because love wasn't meant to be this way, maybe because the world is quickly turning into hypocrites. Trying to be close to the rich alone, or trying to be close to the in a relationship those who can offer the expensive lifestyle, I hope it doesn't push many guys into crime and quick schemes to get rich.

On the second hand I truly can't blame them, on the other hand, I can understand the plight, as everyone wishes for a better life, even the broke guy wouldn't think twice about jumping on a million dollar offer, even if it means betraying someone who has been there for them. So it cut across everyone. All I can do Is pray God comes true for everyone, and keeps providing. Rather than blame people for not wanting to accept or align with that broke guy, I'll take encourage the broke guy to try stepping up and doing better. Poverty indeed is a disease, no one truly wants it, no one can like coping with it.

The streets are not friendly to the broke man, it has always been that way. Only those who are wise enough to know changes happens to everyone won't be harsh to the broke, just incase tomorrow turns around, another motives could be when the broke guy is valuable, there's something he's needed for, could be anything even as little as funny, listening ears, handsome, could anything that makes them wanted, apart from these, there's no reason for anyone being around someone who would most probably keep begging them for assistance. It's a life programmed way I guess.

Don't get angry anymore, with the way the world pushes away the poor and accepts the rich, rather take it as a motivation to push harder, when we are wealthy for ourselves, we can decide to bring as much broke people closer and start changing the world from there. Also bearing in mind that a change can happen at any time, so we shouldn't treat anyone as less than human all cause they are broke. Also for relationship be careful enough to pray and follow your heart, this way you don't miss it on the long run. So back to my question, Do you think the society offers any love to a broke person?

Hope you are having a nice day, it's a great day. Remain good guys. You all are the best.