Exiting Deceit

There are few ways we judge ourselves and its mostly on our intentional act, those few times we have deceived another all in the bid to get our needs met, there are reasons for every actions, we can easily justify ourselves but we find it hard to change our ways. Exiting Deceit should be our next line of action, how to live good and stay good, living a life of principle. Seeing the need for the truth even when it cost us dearly. It's apparently easy and rampant it is to lie nowadays, we go on and on lying and we don't feel a thing.

The society has imbibed it as a normal occurence, he lied and so what, as long as he didn't kill no one. We rarely think it deep as to why we shouldn't lie, we feel it doesn't have that much effect anyways, there is a reason for it. That's what this article is centered about, the cost for lying and the reason therefore why we should try to act otherwise, the good reasons why we should stick with the truth. There are lot of reasons why lying should be averted and avoided as much as possible, but we don't see this reasons, maybe we don't want to see the reasons.

You might not be aware but people do notice, your day effect is being slowly watched and getting their conclusions about you. Its easier said than done for a man who claims to be principled, today even the old men lie and no one words can really be trusted. The way to earn peoples trust is when you have been tried and trusted. Surely when we stick to the truth, the respect is accorded with it. It's the reason why you can say something and no one cares to double check, all cause you said it and that's all the confirmation they need to know its true, do you know how much contracts being earn, how much extra people gain all cause they are trusted.

The few recognize people on earth has always eaten off the preserved cake for diligence. I don't know if it's God rewarding them, but it surely comes to them, and they are sure deserving of it. They say to whom much is given, much is required, but then who is going to give you much when you haven't show the much that Is required, are you trusted? Are your words true? How easy is it for you to lie?. There are so many people who are looking for that one truly truthful person who can be trusted in dire situations, they are ready to commit billions of money into their hands for overseeing, cause giving it to any person can be a risky move, could cost then all they have.

Most times when we weigh the chances of getting caught or saying the truth we would see clearly that saying the truth is a much better option, indeed it is. The issue is that we think they would never find out, but the truth always finds it way out, one way or the other, so just stick to the truth. Lying is like digging the ground and covering it with a mat, hoping no one would know there is a hole in there, surely someday someone finds out, most times sooner than we want. It's the hurt afterwards that is what we should try to avoid. Moreover we earn more respect when we stick to the truth and say it. A lie has no legs, has no bearing, eventually its caught.

One thing I always say is "who is going to beat me" and the answer is no one, no one would beat me when I lie, we outgrow certain phases and we can own up to our responsibilities, and that's just it, I only care about your feelings and that's why I want to lie, so that I don't hurt you, maybe I'm only postponing the hurt till another time, my lies are not stopping the hurt, it's only postponing the hurt till another day, it could be a bad day to discover. Stick to the truth, let it out and live on, we rest better with those lies off our chest.

How true is this? Have you ever made up your mind, like from hence forth I want to do this or do that, how did it go for you. It doesn't necessarily mean your life should change, although that's the aim, that it changes, but it has its ways of making your self proud. Not pride, but having the feel like you have some kind of project and you have been executing it well. Then you can stand boastful in public, when people say wrongs things about you, you are sure there is a mixed up somewhere, your mind and conscience are all cleared, cause so far so good, you've been truthful, and this also means lesser problem.

Lies are easy and truth can sometimes be hard, truth however wins at last as it always finds its way out but lies lands issues on the doorstep, so we do the math. Talk less of the hurt we cause. Lies don't solve it, it only postpones to another day, so why not just say the truth, let's start seeking the solution from today. We can exit the realms of deceits and lies, yes we can, not that easy but one try at a time.

Thanks for reading through, much love. ❤