What I'll be sharing today are those truths we know, maybe we don't know yet, but we would surely discover and as its essential we know this truths. Even if its not pleasant and we don't want to believe it, it shouldn't stop us from accepting the facts. Its life we are living and we learn with everyone single person that comes our way, we learn with every single day, we learn with every single view that catches our eyes, it's a continuous learning procedure and these few things I'll be highlighting are few facts that exist. They are not applicable to everyone, but I guess its just the overall human nature playing its parts.
Ever shared a good news to some friends and you can't help but notice the unhappiness, there's something about the smiles and the congratulations that seem off. Well you can't force it on them and say "why are you not happy for me", all you can do is take note and decide to move discreetly from henceforth. Actually for some its doesn't mean they are bad or are planning to do something bad to you, it could be a normal jealous reaction especially when they feel they feel they are still lacking behind. I can't fully say everyone feels that kind of way, but sure a large percentage of the people feel that way, we all hope to be better among the group, so we are prone to jealousy.
However we must learn to be genuinely happy for a friend that's excelling In his own endeavors, like they say, when success start coming to those around you, you should be more expectant, yours might be next. Also it gives us a added advantage when someone close is doing better, this way we can learn and know how to do better for ourselves. Though it never comes naturally at first, the usual first feeling is of jealousy, but we work from within and be happy so we can pray for ours with a clear conscience and hope God answers.
Until we learn to earn our self respect from people, we could be feeling like what's the big deal. Sometimes we feel like we are the one doing them the favour of calling, or visiting, or keeping the relationship going when actually they don't care, or should I say they don't care anymore. Especially if you have that rich uncle, he probably doesn't pray to see your call, if he had a way of preventing you from asking for his assistance, he sure would, but what can he do, you're family right. Like it or not, someone is tired of putting up with you, some might be courageous to let you know, others would keep bearing.
This is more rampant in a relationship, you both can be together but one is only acting a drama, trying not to hurt you, when in fact she or he is already tired of the relationship. I know I used the she before the he, hahaha, cause on gender sure falls out of love more than the other, and they call it mood swing. Sensitivity is needed in our inter relationship with others, we need to know when we are becoming a burden or becoming unwanted, it might be best to halt a while and gain more value, don't hate them, they are not bad people, it's a normal feeling, especially when you constantly see someone. Rather try earning value.
Oh yes, even in churches where it seems like the matters of sex is a sinful discussion, deep down they crave for a good sex. I like you its becoming a huge and rampant topic to be discussed in churches, among youths and teenagers especially, it's something we need to be deliberate about, it has a huge impact in our lives. The sad reality is when we get into a relationship and see that this sex becomes a concern and you've grown to not talk about it. What happens then, do you begin to continue living life without enjoying a good sexual relationship. It's not spookiness, it was created for enjoyment.
I've heard of a couple who had a boring sexual life and it was killing the lady, how does she say it to her husband that she wants more, to try out more exciting things to him, wouldn't he call her unholy and spoilt, little did she know that the husband also has been trying hard to complain to her too. Not until the matter was discussed in their church and they discovered their mentors were all enjoying the best sexual life cause they talked about it and were not ashamed. Its fun, of course its wrong when you're unmarried, but when you finally see that right partner, it's fun to have the best sexual experience, it's one lovely gift from God. It's sad to know some couples still don't know how to talk about this.
How do you feel when you discover there's someone who does or have it better than you? You feel like something bad should just happen to them right. You wish God can just bless you with something, something he won't give to any other person. Maybe where you are, you're the champion, but there's somewhere else where you won't be regarded at all. More reason why we need humility. Someone has your talent and does it better than you no doubt, but then no one can be you. Someone can do this better but there's still something to make you stand out different, could be as little as your attitude. So still keep on being yourself.
Take a moment to laugh at this, do you like to imagine this, I bet you wouldn't. Ok have you ever try dreaming about this, did you wake with fear and tears in your eyes. It's a sad reality indeed, we wish we would live forever and ever, like some super hero or gods, but hey you're not that special after all, we all die, we only pray it's at old age, after we have enjoyed and seen the fullest of life, amen. May God grant us long life Amen. However the most bitter sad reality is that some people would go while they are still young, so everytime we pray for God's protection. I guess this should be the saddest of thr realities.
There are so many sad realities, I couldn't possibly remember it all, however life continues and we must keep pushing through each day with hope and excitement for good to happen. Feel free to chip in your thoughts and other sad realities that came to mind in the comment section. Thanks a bunch for Reading guys. Keep supporting, one love y'all.