Happy last Wednesday of the year.

Everyday I thank God for the husband I married. I am very fortunate to have such a loving, understanding and supportive husband who makes me happy and puts me above his own interests. He understands my emotions perfectly; he could sense when things were not okay with me, even when I mask my facial expressions and body language. He is the epitome of godliness; he helps with the chores, and he is very involved in parenting our kids. He does not does not believe that certain house chores are meant for a particular gender. He would always say every member of the family should work as a team.

Looking at the above thought, we can see that this woman is fortunate to have a good husband who makes her happy. We live in a society that whenever a man helps his wife in babysitting his child or in the house chores, people will begin to say a lot of nonsense. They say the woman has used charm on the husband. They say the husband is no longer thinking straight...

All these are mere misconceptions. They are fallacies. What is this world turning into. There is nothing wrong with a man helping the wife with house chores. There is nothing wrong with it. It shows a man loves his wife. It shows you don't want your wife to die untimely. Women are not only in this world to work and work. There are many women today who suffer from miscarriage due to the fact that they don't have time to rest. Many women die at childbirth due to stress. Women grow older in look more than their husbands. A forty-year-old woman looking fifty five.

I give kudos to men that help their wives. I respect you. Please don't be bothered by what people say. I know you have done a lot of work in the office but please, help your wife babysit your child while she is in the kitchen. Help her make breakfast once in a while. It will make her happy. Women don't complain. They speak through body language and facial expressions. Study your wife to know what she wants. Do what will make her happy. It's very important if you want her to live long and take care of you and your kids. It will even serve as a good example for your children. It will make them love and respect you the more. It will even make your wife to make you the happiest man on earth. She will always cook delicious meals for you. She will never nag at you. She will be very obedient. People will also respect you when your wife looks more beautiful than when you married her.

Well done to the women in the house. You are so wonderful. You do a lot of work to keep body and soul together. You know your husband is not the lazy type. He is a very hard-working man. He does a lot for the home. Please don't turn him into an house help. Respect him as the head. Cook his meals in time and make the house clean. No man loves a dirty environment. Express your feelings. I know you don't like complaining. The responsibilities of the home is on you. Don't argue with him. Tolerate his weaknesses. How you treat him goes a long way to determine if you will continue to enjoy him. Love your in-laws. It's important. Make your husband always have a good look. Marriage is hard work; you need to consistently work on it to keep the fire and passion alive. I pray you will live to eat the fruits of your labor.

I specially show gratitude to my new sponsors @Ay_dimeji @scottcbusiness old sponsor, readers, up voters and tippers. I appreciate your love and encouragement. May God grant you all your heart desires. Happy New year in advance.

Those of us who are still schooling or preparing for marriage, let us keep these in our memory. It will be useful for us when we eventually get married.

I hope I have not said too much.

Thanks for reading💖.

Boluwatife writes 🖌️