Women's Drama.

I remember when I used to have a relationship. Whenever I see my man post a lady's picture, my heart will begin to palpitate. My stomach will begin to rumble😂. Why? Simply because I don't want him to date another girl. Most times, I don't show that I'm jealous because I wouldn't want a situation whereby my man will begin to complain about my jealousness. Because the moment he begins to complain, he may now start to have other girlfriends and I don't want it to be so. I don't like it when I disturb a guy with my jealousy.

There are many times that I have cried silently without letting my partner know. I know that if he knows that I'm crying because I saw him with another girl, it's gonna be a double cry for me because he will see me as a senseless person. After all, it's not possible to conclude that two people are dating just because you saw them together. But there's one thing I don't do. I don't quarrel with him because of other ladies. I believe that whenever you begin to have issues with your man because of other ladies, you tend to chase him away from you.

Men don't like troublesome ladies. I used to be very troublesome but I had to stop because I realized that it is not needed. To me, when you're in a relationship, you should be able to make each other happy. You should be able to find peace in your partner. I learned it a hard way though. And I noticed that whenever you're too cool, people take you for granted so you should just be moderate. My last relationship failed because I was too calm. I didn't have enough courage to confront my man about the things that he does.

And one general thing about women is that they will always check your phone😅. And whenever we check our man's phone, we begin to cry. I mean, unnecessary cry because we can't tell him the reason why we are crying😂. Imagine sleeping beside your man and you took his phone at the midnight to check his chat with other girls and you see that he's seeing other girls. How would you feel? Then, you will begin to cry. And the young man will wake up to ask you why you're crying but you don't have anything to say😅. You'll just continue to cry.

And if you have a lady that loves you so much and she can't do without you, you'll be having everyday experience of women's drama. She calls every day and when you don't pick up, it's a problem. And if you eventually pick, she'll begin to interrogate you like a detective. She will ask you where you were when the phone was ringing, what you were doing when it was ringing, and all. And if she's an over-thinker, she'll be able to know exactly what you were doing at that moment. And if you don't call back, that's extra drama😂.

I think one of the major reasons why I don't want to have a new relationship is because of all of this stress. I don't think I can live without one of these in a relationship😅. Honestly, I have a guy I like but I'm scared of starting a new relationship. I no longer have the strength of asking someone why he didn't call me. Asking someone about what he ate and the other things that you all do in a relationship so I prefer to remain like this for now😅. And I know that whenever I feel like having a new relationship, I'll be happy with my partner.

Honestly, women are lovely and wonderful people. We are the salt of the world. The world wouldn't have been a sweet place without women here. Also, I'm proud to be a woman with little touches of drama in my head😅. Also, I'm proud to be one of the most caring, loving, and forgiving women out there. God bless every women❤.