Human Differences In Relationships. What’s Your Take On This?

I know each of us have one or two things we do that does not seem right. We may see it as the best thing in the world while someone else will see it as total rubbish. Also, we may appreciate one thing while another person may not even like it at all. This is why there is usually something to talk about or argue on in relationships. No matter how it can be, you and your partner will still have at least, two differences which may be causing issues between you two every now and then.

Yesterday, I got talking with one of my male friends. He mentioned to me sometime about him breaking up with his girlfriend but we could not go into it because we had other things to talk about and we were also busy. So we decided to polish that part, yesterday. He finally revealed why he and his girlfriend broke up.

Firstly, he praised the girl and mentioned that she is the best girl he has ever dated. I was glad to hear that from him because we’ve got so many people who say bad things about their exes just because they are no more together. He mentioned that she’s a kind of lady who loves attention a lot. She does not really want the money or other things but she always want to make sure that you are sparing your time for her.

My friend on the other hand, is a man who is pursuing his career on a very serious note. He hardly has time for himself but he still tries to make sure that he creates little time for the lady but not up to the time she wants. He mentioned that the lady complains every now and then about how busy he usually get but there was nothing he could do. When it became persistent, he had to break up. He didn’t break up because he felt she was disturbing him. He broke up because he felt she was too loving and does not deserve someone like him or maybe deserves someone better than him who can always give her the attention she wants. He also mentioned that if he continues to to date her, he’d just keep hurting her feelings because he’s very busy and can’t give her enough attention that she wants.

Unfortunately, the lady misunderstood this act and felt he jilted her so she always post negative things about men on her status everyday. Well, I understand how she feels since she does not really know why he broke up with her.

Now, how do you think he can tell the girl and make her understand why he broke up with her? Or do you think they should come back together and maybe make things work again? As for me, I feel they can come back together and make things work but it is left for the lady to understand the guy’s working schedule and always know when she can call since they both love each other.

What do you feel?