That's right, I haven't and never will be. I will not be friends with my children because friends are another category. I’m a mom and we’ll stick to that!
I love, look after, help, guard, encourage, pop, protest, advise, respect, care, but I am not a friend.
My task is to better prepare my children for life - not to play their friend. The reasonable dose of respect and love I give to my children, I want to get back. Motherhood is the most beautiful role in life, but it is not the only one. And when I became a mother I was still someone's wife, daughter, friend, colleague…. I still existed, but with another new role.
I understand people who decide not to have children, but I don’t understand those who will have them when they get a little used to life. Life without children can be fulfilling and wonderful, as well as life with children - it is not up to the children, it is up to us.
I sacrifice myself for my children!
No, I'm not sacrificing myself! I never felt like a victim, nor did the children restrain me in something I wanted. Maybe the reason is that my wishes were reasonable, so they were achievable? I don’t know, but I know I’ve never felt motherhood as a burden. We are no longer talking about the feelings that overwhelm you when you look at that little man while he sleeps, you look forward to the first unconscious smiles, you caress and kiss him, you hold a small handle in yours or you bathe him.
Not to mention the beautiful things that are related to motherhood. Everything has become difficult and complicated and everything seems too hard for us. It’s not easy, but it’s wonderful!
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