Time is a stage where we have gone through it, or haven't had time to go through it. Time is often considered trivial by many people, if you pay attention there are several time itself, namely:
1. Past
The past is the time when we have gone through, or the past. That past is "means", why? Because from the past we gain a lot of experience, we can learn from the past. What is not good is fixed, what is already good is improved for the better. The past should be left alone, but remember that the past is "Meaningful".
2. Future
After remembering the past, now we move to the future. The future is our time to achieve success, what we want to be, what we want to be. It is obligatory to really understand how we respond to the future, because the future is "very meaningful" for our lives going forward.
3. Present time
From the two periods above, there is one more time here, namely the present. The current period is a "very meaningful" period, because it is the present that determines what kind of future we will be, what we want to be. At this time we are just lazy, yes that would certainly ensure our future, if we try to make the present, our future will certainly be bright. Remember this is a very "Meaningful" time.
Then what about the past? I think an understanding like “I have a past” or “Our past” by placing the ownership factor can make us less self-conscious and think that the past is not part of our lives.
This is a bit risky, because many people fall into the pit of arrogance because they think their past is not part of their life, many people abdicate responsibility because they think their past is mere possession, so they easily throw it away and escape the responsibilities. So far, I think it's been enough to give my thoughts if you think the past is "possession" is a big mistake.
Let's start with a deeper reflection. Life is accumulative, we are a continuous creation of all our past, all the people we have known and were part of the story are people who have contributed to our lives as well. Elementary school friends, middle school friends, high school friends, house friends, people you used to love and people who used to love you, people you hated and people who used to hate you, family area, work area and all the people you have ever appeared in their midst are the people who have contributed to shape you to this day.
This means that we have great power throughout this life, the fabric of the story that then sometimes supports your every step, especially if it turns out that you have dated a very beautiful girl and after that you can no longer get a girl as beautiful as her. So that kind of thing can provide support in your subconscious that having a beautiful girl is not impossible. The past is dominant in shaping us, but not as an alibi for doing out-of-the-ordinary actions. Appreciate the past as the past accompanies your life until now, if she is not good, introduce your new person who is definitely better than before, if she is good, prove that the title "good" is indeed what you deserve.
Simply put, there are many people who are a part of our lives let alone have donations in shaping our individuals. The point is, "We are also a part of many people's lives and have a contribution in shaping other individuals".
So, share a good impression with everyone we know. Because life is only for those who are aware, aware that doing good is no longer an obligation, but it is part of us.
The past, most of us behave like we don't have a past because of what we have scale through, but we pray for a better future