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Benefits of Being a Good Listener

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If discussed further, hearing is not just so that it appears to hear. But hearing in its truest sense: Hearing well. So a good listener aims so that the message conveyed by the speaker can be understood well by the listener. There is no data bias, there is no misunderstanding or misinterpretation.

Becoming a good listener is not easy. It takes desire and expertise in this matter.

Unfortunately, listening skills are not often taught in schools or colleges. What is often taught is how to have a dialogue or give a speech in front of a crowd. Moreover, many courses offer training and public speaking. People also conclude that they are more interested in learning how to be a good speaker. There is nothing wrong because the dialogue in front of a crowd is difficult for the majority of people.

Not so with hearing. Listening is considered a natural and easy thing because everyone can usually hear. This assumption causes people to be more inclined to practice dialogue, whereas how to be a good listener gets less attention. The urgency of being a good listener can be seen or proven in communication between people or between groups. Many problems arise from miscommunication or misunderstanding.

As a result, what is meant by the speaker is different from what is received by the listener. Because of this miscommunication, conflicts can also arise.

Now, this confirms how important it is to have good communication, which includes being a good listener. Therefore, how to be a good listener must get serious attention so that what is informed by the speaker can be understood well, without facing distortion.

What are the Benefits?

Next, let's see what are the benefits of being a good listener.

The First, appreciate the speaker.

By being a good listener, we indirectly value the speaker. We show enthusiasm and intensity with body expressions and gestures. Everyone needs to be heard. This is an opportunity to appreciate other people's comments or thoughts by paying close attention to what they have to say.

Second, the message is conveyed well.

If we can be good listeners, we may master the message conveyed by the speaker. Not only the spoken message, but also the disguised message carried by facial expressions, gestures, eye thoughts, and others. No miscommunication. So a good listener will make it very easy to receive messages.

Third, increase knowledge.

If when we are in dialogue we give data or comments to others, on the contrary when we listen, we listen to the data, comments, or thoughts of others. In other words, by being a listener we will increase referrals or knowledge. We are rich in knowledge or data thanks to the willingness to be good listeners. So, there's nothing wrong with being a good listener.

Fourth, protect good bonds.

So being a good listener can have a direct impact on the bond of friendship or friendship. Not sure? Just try to always refute or deny whatever other people say to you, and observe the results. Building a good bond can be tried by practicing the moves to be a good listener. We will find it easier to make friends by acting friendly, indifferent, and empathetic in observing others.

Not by arguing, and criticizing endlessly. Being a good listener is a surefire way to develop and maintain friendships based on mutual respect.

The question is, have we become efficient listeners? Friendship and brotherhood are initiated and nurtured with a willingness to be a good listener.

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Indeed, agreed with the points presented here. Being a good listener is a character that kne would love to have. It creates good connection and it builds trusts

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5 months ago

You're right, it's a shame that I haven't studied listening specifically in school. thanks you.

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5 months ago

Good writing, most importantly we must learn to listen to the people closest to us, starting from a partner because it will be very beneficial for a relationship.

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5 months ago

Not just partners we also have God... everyone should learn to give God a listening ear, God still speaks.. Listen

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5 months ago

yes. You are absolutely right sir, that way we will have good listening skills. thank you sir.

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5 months ago

Being a good listener can make you learn more things and understand complicated situations.

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Of course my friend, that's the hope of being a good listener.

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