The right partner

Happy eid el kabir to all my Muslims colleagues and friends here on readcash, you guys should drop locations of where we will eat the meat o😉😉 I wish you all more of it insha allah.

In many relationships today, violence is the order of the day, different homes has been broken turning many women into single mothers, many children into fatherless and motherless children all because the couples can't tolerate one another's lapses anymore. Relationship is more than the saying "I love you", marriage is more than the saying "I will be there for you and the exchange of rings. There are lots of things you don't know about each other when you are in courtship, you will get to see different kinds of attitudes he or she never showcase during your courtship days. It takes patience, diligence, tolerance and genuine love not the love based on material things, not the love based on body stature, not the love based on accent or any other physical attributes.

In a relationship it's very good and important to go for the physical characteristics that you want in your partner, be it body stature, complexion, height, accent and every beautiful features you will like in him or her but don't take all these over hard work, intelligence, tolerable, creative, ideal, supportive partner, all these has to been proven , it's not something you can see physically when you meet your partner. Being in a relationship with the right person is the best, you won't force anything to happen, don't misquote me pls am not saying there won't be fights, arguments, disappointments and misunderstanding but amidst all this it won't go far to the extent of domestic violence, you will enjoy peace from within, you will always want to be with your partner no matter what. The love you started with will be rekindled, you will enjoy your marriage and raise successful children.

Being in a relationship with the right person, you don't have to say what you need or want before he or she understands, their will be trust and understanding, people in the outside world will see it as voodoo or charm but you will know all the things you are enjoying is by the grace of God which took you to the right person you should be with. Marriage has gone beyond the level that only the man will provide for the family, it has to be done by the both parties, I don't agree with the idea of couples minding each other business, couples must support each other, and stand for each other no matter what.

In conclusion

Love is not all about confessing with your mouth, put it into action. The right person is always the right person. Be careful how you treat that right person and you will enjoy your relationship and your marriage.

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