Success is a journey, not a destination

Success is a word desired by all. But what does success mean? Success is the attainment of money, power, prestige, honor, acquaintance or desired degree etc. or does it mean something else? If a rich and powerful person is unhappy or dissatisfied with himself at the end of the day, can he be called successful? In fact, the word success is very personal in its own way and varies from person to person. However, it can be said that the development of the possibilities that every human being is born with endless possibilities, its application in life and the sense of contentment is the measure of the life of a successful person. That is, success means the realization of a person's dreams and aspirations. Successful people are in control of almost every single moment of their lives, relationships and livelihoods, and their work plays a positive role in society or in the lives of others.

Is there really a formula for success? Yes, there is.

Many of us have the idea that ‘talent’ is the key to success. In other words, only a talented person gets the desired word of success. But more important than merit is the personality or character traits of the person. The personality of a person is formed by combining the characteristics of a person's life and way of looking at himself, ability to cope with stress, foresight, self-confidence, type of thoughts and emotions, etc. The type of personality along with merit plays a very important role in reaching the desired goal. A person's way of thinking, positive outlook on life, self-control, belief in himself and his work, etc., make him unique among many. This unique feature is the key to success.

Success simply means meeting goals. So first figure out how you want to see yourself in life or how others will remember you. Focus on what you love or what you want or what you are good at, rather than what others want you to do. Work that you do not love or enjoy, work that you do not believe in, work can be continued for a long time, but it is difficult to see success in that work.

Social skills increase people’s communication with people and play a role in building strong social networks. The difficult path to success is somewhat easier, if social communication or acceptance is good. We get many jobs through people, most of the opportunities come from someone's hand. Social networks not only provide a sense of security, but also boost our confidence and courage in dealing with problems. Not only that, the presence of people helps us to open new windows of our psyche, helps us to understand ourselves. The only way to increase social skills is to socialize. So make old relationships stronger. Acknowledge minor imperfections in the relationship. Meet new people, give them time, get to know them, get to know yourself.

While it is easy to blame others for your own failures, it will not change your life. The attitude of taking full responsibility for any good or bad event in life is one of the main conditions for success. In other words, take responsibility for your life achievement, quality of relationship, professional position, mental and physical health, financial condition without blaming others. Putting the responsibility of your life on others means handing over control of the good and bad of your life to others. Only 'you' can change your life. So if you want to change something, change it first. Change your thinking, your behavior, your strategy, your attitude, your type of work, your behavior. And all this is under your control. However, the matter is not so simple, taking responsibility on oneself is not so easy. This means the courage to change your habits for many days. So leave the current job if necessary and find something new. Talk to your partner about complications. Believe in intuition. Seek the help of others. Help others. Learn to say no to peer pressure. Start walking with body care, give time to study etc.

Mental preparation is a very important subject, which helps us to take any subject easily or prevent us from getting too confused. There is a need to be mentally prepared for the good and bad consequences of any challenge. Not only this, with the help of fire you can do welding. It is important to remember that favorable conditions can be unfavorable at any time. Just as it is necessary to be mentally prepared for any situation, good or bad, then facing challenges, the mentality of simply accepting anything good or bad helps us to move forward. The trap of success will come in your life. These traps can often distract you from the goal. For example, you may want to be a skilled physician, but a handful of money on the go can deviate from your goal. So you have to figure out how much money you will receive. Remember that life will give you feedback on your work in many ways. So stop the busyness occasionally and pay attention around. Deterioration of business, declining grades, deteriorating relationships, feeling unwell, getting bogged down in work are all some kind of ‘warning signals’ in life that tell you to pay more attention to these things.

The path to a specific goal in your life will not always be in your favor. Sometimes you stumble or fall or fail. If you want to get a taste of success in any subject, stick to it despite hundreds of obstacles. The biggest challenge of sticking to this is small and big failures, human mistakes, discouragement etc. By overcoming these obstacles naturally, the more he continues to do his work, the faster he will move towards the desired result. Being stuck with failure or having a small mind about it means wasting time on your path to success. The word ignore is easy but it is often difficult to apply in life. Unwavering trust in the goal, love, faith teaches to ignore all these.The success that comes from meeting goals is only a part of the game of life. In this game you will always have the ball on your feet or you will continue to move forward, it may or may not. In order to reach the desired goal in the game, sometimes you have to go on the backfoot, sometimes you have to put the ball on the feet of others, so here too. So go backfoot from time to time if necessary to go to the desired goal. Give others a chance. Take a break if necessary. Observe, change your strategy.

Walking the path of life but not the 100 meter race, where to go a certain distance one has to be first second in the competition with many. It’s like running a marathon, where the key is how far you have reached, how long you have survived. In this long race, sometimes you will fall behind your fellow passengers, sometimes you will run in parallel, sometimes you will move forward. It doesn't matter who you are ahead of or behind, it is important to know how far you have come in this long journey. Your morale to move forward, your willpower, your ability to accept temporary setbacks along the way, everything will take you forward at once.

Remember, success is not the key to happiness, but happiness is one of the key to success. So stick to the job you love. Success will come along the path of your love. Because behind every successful man there's a lot of unsuccessful years.

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