What do we mean by life?
The meaning of life is a journey. The journey that thousands of people will meet you, talk to you, be friends with you will be broken in the blink of an eye. But this is not the case. Because you don’t understand the value of happiness if you don’t see bad times. In the same way, even if you do not come in contact with the difficult time spent in the way of life, you will not be able to understand how confident and self-confident you can be from within. Just as we do not know when a difficult time will come, many think about what to do at that time. Some people think that this time is not going to end. This low self-confidence sometimes loses your winning bet. So become more confident in yourself whenever a difficult time comes in the midst of this flowing stream of life. And say that good times will come as easily as bad times. These difficult times can be overcome with the decision to take a cold head even in the extreme moments of life. It will not always be the same. This sentence should be the only inspiration for your difficult time.
Can this sentence really come to inspiration in difficult times ???
When someone asks us such a question, we hesitate .... In reality, we cannot think like this in difficult times. Suddenly something happens that turns everything up-down. We have to accept any unexpected change in life. Life, which has been arranged little by little for a long time, seems to become untidy in a moment, the familiar world becomes unfamiliar. Bad times come suddenly.
So how do you handle yourself ??
* Accept the sudden change in your life due to an event, no matter how unexpected, accept it. The faster you accept, the faster you will be able to adapt to the changed life.
* Whatever the new state of life, love it.
* Even in very negative situations, small good things are scattered around, which we don't seem to care about. Separate attention to your financial well-being, family support, and your own well-being will give you some strength, which will help you to cope with this unpleasant situation.
*We need to learn to keep ourselves busy:
You can forget all your pain when you are busy. Don't spend lazy time, because in lazy time you will focus on the bad aspects so that you will keep thinking about the things that will not help you. Try to do something.
Who can climb to the top of success ???
The hands of the clock do not stop. Every second of life is lost in every moment. Those who can color life every second are at the top of the list of successes. The struggle is to take life forward by painting every moment. The story of that struggle is different in different people and minds. Although the story of each person is different, everyone's life is moving forward. Some are slow and some are fast ..... everyone is counting the hours trying to move forward. And those who move forward handle the difficult times of life and focus on work with a strong morale to move forward by taking some real lessons from life.
Life is always moving. The workplace you are working in now .... thinking maybe everything is useless without you. Really but it's not. If you leave work today it will create temporary problems in the workplace, but very soon everyone will forget your presence. In the same way today you may be quite popular among friends. No chat without you. Be aware, even if you are not, the color of the chat will not be dirty in any part.
Nothing is permanent in life. Emotions, complaints or grievances ... nothing lasts forever. Social relationships will not always be the same. Whoever you think you like today may not like tomorrow. Whoever is praising you today, tomorrow he may be your harsh critic. Those who climb to the highest peaks of success never compare themselves with others. So we have to learn to compare ourselves with ourselves. Do not despise yourself when you hear the news of a good job from your friend, but try to fix your path by taking encouragement from your friend.
Can we really get through this difficult time and get back to normal life ????
Yes, of course we can.
No matter how much grief comes, it will come down one day. The pain of losing a lover, good job opportunities or good results in exams ..... etc. Failure and grief can come in life due to various reasons. But what's in it !! We need to know that all sorrows gradually become lighter. One day after overcoming all the sorrows, we become accustomed to normal life.
We have to be positive:
This may sound conventional but it is really true. It is much more important to be positive in difficult times. When you stay positive you can keep yourself in a good position even in bad times and be a good person yourself. When bad times come in life you can do two things together. You will be positive and remind yourself that there must be light after the dark tunnel that dispels the darkness.
Only hard work brings us this success ????
Success in life does not come from hard work alone. In addition to hard work, intellectual decision making and creativity have to be added. Never get stuck in a monotonous circle of life doing the same thing year after year. Learn to take risks with decisions. One of the advantages of taking a risk is that you do not know what will happen next. This unfamiliar and unknown path opens new doors in front.
"Let it be what you can't control," Marter said.
Make a list of things in your daily routine that are out of your control. Also stop thinking about these things on the list. When meditating or praying, keep in mind that things beyond your control are being handed over to your higher powers and are going away. Then focus on the things you can control, such as your words, your actions, and your decisions.
There is so much to be thankful for in life. Laughter makes life better. Look at the beauties that surround you and smile. Be grateful for the little things in life. When you put these little things together you will see that they are really important. Remember-
Happiness does not make you grateful but gratitude makes you happy.
In order to be successful, should we give importance only to the opinions of others or should we use our own conscience to make life as our own ??
Success or failure is not everything in life. Life is about painting time in an aesthetic way. Don't think of other people's opinions as everything in life. The same book may sound good to some, bad to others. In the same way, your work may be good for some, bad for others - always work through understanding with yourself. Mobile phones or the social world are not everything in life. You may be upset to see your friend's success picture on Facebook. Again, spending a lot of time on the back of the mobile phone during the day is not positive. Try to improve your skills. Give importance to your hobby.
How reasonable is the idea that others will lead you on the path to success ??
One has to follow one's own path. Others may like you very much, but at the end of the day you have to cross your path. Every human being has a different story of progress, a different story of hardship - so never sit back and think that someone will take you forward.
Open the mouth of the bottle by shaking a water bottle.
What will we see ???
We will see that nothing will happen. Now open the mouth of the bottle by shaking a bottle of Coke
What will we see now ????
Will we see the same situation as before!Of course not ..... this time it will be scattered and dirty all around.
There are many such shocks in our life.
Now the question is how are we reacting to it ..... ??
If we want to stay calm in all situations, we have to become like water. Most of the time we react unknowingly. So first we have to be able to separate our thoughts. It is because of some thoughts that come to mind when we are restless. If there are many thoughts coming, it is a state of turmoil. But you can stay calm in any situation when you learn to let go of your worries. By eliminating unwanted thoughts, you will be able to focus your attention on the thoughts that will benefit you in that situation.
Everything that happens in this world happens for a reason. There must be some reason behind our happiness and sorrow. If you think a little deeper about those reasons in difficult times, then there is a little chance to reduce grief or worry. Then the brain should be given more importance than the heart.
Logic alone helps a person to be tough in difficult times. Repeatedly saying "I am not the only one in the world going through such a difficult time" brings strength to the mind.
"There are billions more people in misery than me, sadder than me." Even if you think about this in your mind, you can get morale.
"Is my grief, my anxiety, my worries so great that I can't cope with it?"Thinking like that brings back confidence ..... There is a way out of a difficult situation.
Day after night comes, the last light of darkness must shine and the day is not equal to anyone. we have to believe these words ..... you don't have to bother much to go through that the difficult time by hardening your mind.
Suffering in life, difficult situations come, will come, may come; But this coming is not to last. This arrival is to leave. One day must go. And when you go back, you will see that these miserable, difficult situations have given us many experiences. It has made our path steadfast and strong. So know for sure that if you can pass the test of patience, then the wonderful scenario of your success will come before you one by one. Know that in exchange for patience, this success is bound to happen to a very small number of people. And you are one of those insignificant people. Remember,
God created you in a special way. That is to say, just as your shape is different, so will the attributes God have bestowed on you be different and distinctive.
Our Creator sent every human being into this world with some incomparable skill, yet we never know what will happen in the next days of life. As long as we live on this earth, we can pray to the Almighty God so that as long as He keeps us alive in this world, we can worship Him only for the reality of this life, not for the emotions.
Always make decisions that prioritize your inner peace.
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