Technology effect on our social behavior

People spend more time on their phones, starting on television. or are on the computer before a few years back than we ever have before. In my understanding, and that of many others. Children growing up are more socially incapable, are more subject to cyberbullying, and have a tougher time having a deep friendship with an individual. People presently spend too much time online, and it is affecting their social behavior in a very negative way,

Being socially incapable does not only mean socially awkward. There are a few additional parts to it that illustrate a socially incapable person. Being socially awkward is still part of being socially incapable. And it means that you spend a lot of time worrying about what others think of you. You continually try to join in a conversation with a funny joke. but nobody laughs, and it makes others feel awkward. You have a difficult time trying to say what you actually mean, or addressing yourself. Another part of being socially incapable is being inconsiderate. They have a hard time noticing when they have taken things too far and hurt someone,s feelings who is around them. They often say things without thinking and hurt others around them. This has to do with technology because often when children are online. In a chat with other random people, they can say whatever they want with no aftermaths. They cannot see how others react when they say mean or harsh things online, so they do not know how people will respond in person.

Through social media, people like to brag about their belongings or what they are presently doing. Whether it is purposeful or not, people like to brag about things online. When they get something modern, most people will post something online saying what they did or what they bought. When someone goes on holiday to some romantic island or some remarkable location, you will see pictures posted from this person everywhere, Snapchat, Facebook, Snapchat everywhere. They want to show off their success. Then when it comes to being in person. They do not get the interest they desire from live interaction. Sometimes attention is all a person wants. They succeed to get 500 likes on Instagram or a lot of 're-tweets’ on twitter. They are naturally good public speakers and thrive on being the center of attention, and they make sure people know their viewpoint.

Another problem with technology these days is cyberbullying. Cyberbullying is any form of intimidating that takes place online using electronic tools. Statistics proclaim that nearly 43% of teenagers have been bullied online, and 70% of students reported seeing continuous bullying online. 90% of students said that cyberbullying is a gigantic problem because they believe that the possibilities of being caught are lower. They think it is simpler to bully a person online then it is in person face to face. Many people find it easier to talk behind a screen than it is in true life. It is easier to send a text saying negative or comment something harsh than it is to go to someone in person and say the same things. The biggest tool for cyberbullying is text. Over 80% of kids have phones, which makes it the simplest way to access someone online.

People currently have a harder time having deep friendships. As William Deresiewicz said in Faux Friendship “We live at a time when friendship has become both all, and nothing at all.” For now, I believe it, He is saying that friendship can be all totally found out by someone,s online profiles. For example. You could be a ‘friend' with somebody you have never met just by tracking their profiles. By simply following somebody on Instagram. You can find out where they prefer to hang out. or go. You can find out who their friends are. People can call this a friendship, only online, not communicating in real life. Then when you eventually meet the person you think you know all this information about someone, but you really do not. Nobody can find out someone,s personality just by observing them online.