Trust is like a piece of paper, once it's crumpled until it's wrinkled, it can't be perfect again

Trust is our attitude to uphold a belief that is considered true and to follow something because of the value of goodness and truth. And is considered good and right by many people because it is very expensive to trust. So always cultivate honesty so that it doesn't cause a fuss or fight.

Have you ever been in a position no longer trusted by others or can not trust others?

How should we behave if this happens to us, let it be, we will repay it, hate it, apologize and forgive

When we are not trusted anymore

A woman who only graduated from the first school because she came from a poor family so she could not continue her education. She married from a wealthy family and husband graduated from a bachelor's degree. Because he comes from a poor family he is always humiliated, demeaned, as a son-in-law is not respected by his in-laws because he does not come from a rich family. Made like a servant in his own house, so he does all the work at home.

One day her husband had an accident and one leg had to be amputated. And they live in the in-laws' house (husband's parents) with another brother-in-law. Here, the insults of the husband's family are increasingly being considered as unlucky wives, poor wives, stupid and crazy daughters-in-law. Her husband could not do anything because he himself had become a disabled husband and could not do a good job. His wife has a hobby of reading and writing. Channeling his hobby is writing On-Line novels and he likes novels a lot. And she earns money from writing novels and she hides it from her husband and family.

From the money, the wife, who couldn't stand it anymore, wanted to get out of the house. They decided to move from the husband's parents' house to the wife's house which was small but appreciated and they were happily accepted. Finally, the wife told her husband she had money from writing novels and they set up a rice stall to make a living. Even his wife bought prosthetic legs for her husband all from the results of writing novels.

However, the husband's family did not stop bothering and insulting them. Even mentally damaging the husband considers a useless husband. So the husband became depressed and wanted to commit suicide. One day the husband's mother admitted to being sick and her husband, even though he had been insulted, still loved, cared for his mother and family. It turned out that his mother pretended to be sick and the wife received another insult for not wanting to stay at her husband's parents house.

One day his wife was slandered by her husband's brother-in-law saying that his wife had been cheating on him with another man. Because he was instigated, feeling he was useless as a husband, thought his wife was looking for another man. the husband believed and threw his wife out in the middle of the night. Even though his wife had explained the truth that it was a lie. The wife was hurt because her husband listened to other people more than she did and it happened twice. So, his wife asked for a divorce and the husband agreed. When, her husband found out that it was all slander and regret. His wife didn't want to go back to him and he regretted hearing someone else so she left him

The story above is an excerpt from a novel that I read and is a true story. I was very carried away when I read this novel. How a husband accuses his wife of cheating just because he heard from a family that doesn't like his wife. His wife was disappointed and didn't want to go back. It means a wife who is no longer trusted and does not see the honesty and sincerity of the wife

In a husband and wife relationship, friendship, leader to the people, superiors and subordinates etc. Trust is the capital for continuity, harmony and peace in a relationship. Are we as victims or perpetrators so that a trust is broken. Then, everything will be destroyed and difficult to put back together

Like a glass. When it breaks, you can fix it. But, you can still see the cracks, that's how important it is to maintain a trust.

The story above, when the wife's honesty is no longer considered by the husband. If, he wants to step back in a relationship maybe that's a good thing. We have been honest and have said it is not as alleged. There is no need to be forced because pursuing other people's beliefs is not a priority. Keep up the honesty and pray and surrender to God so the truth will be revealed. Because the problem is with other people, not you.

Remain patient and consistent and uphold that you have been honest.

Keep on living life even though other people don't believe in you

Don't fight because we don't have to force others. There's no need to force it like other people want.

Stay confident and ready with all the consequences if we want to back down. And it must be your decision and determination. If you suffer because of being accused and not being trusted anymore, go and let it go. Pray to God that one day the truth will be shown.

When our trust is betrayed

When our position as perpetrators destroy the trust of others. Of course that person will be disappointed, angry, sad and hate us. What we need to do is sincerely apologize and show that we are sorry. If the person doesn't believe you, you don't have to force it. Just prove that you've changed and don't want to make the same mistakes. Hopefully, over time the people we let down will accept and trust us again.

We are betrayed

If, we are victims of the ugliness of others. It is impossible for you not to be angry, sad and disappointed and when the person is sorry. What you need to do to make peace with the situation is to find out the reason why he did it, forgive the person so that your heart is calm and happier, don't live with the image of hurt caused by other people's actions, convince yourself, give yourself a chance and try to believe again in the hope that you don't happen again.

Because the price of a trust. Whether we are victims or perpetrators, don't stop to spread kindness. Don't take revenge or justify what happened. Same with self-introspection and forgive us without judging the people who have hurt us.

Respect and trust cannot be asked for but earned. When we consistently show attitudes and behaviors that are worthy of respect and trust

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