Unfriendly friend
"Someone who smiles with you too much can sometimes frown with you too much at your back" - Michael bassey Johnson.
We never know who the real friend is,there are alot of friends who doesn't want to see us grow,they are called backstabbers. I have a friend like that too sometime like that,I met her while I was in secondary school always wanting to be like me,I noticed quickly because she once said am I the only one that is entitled to everything? Feeling jealous graduate to envy,envy can cause death.
Unfriendly friends are enemies like friend,they have this covering of friend on there face but their inner self speaks hatred,they want to see you grow sometimes but they don't want you to grow more than them. A fake friend always want to control,abuse or manipulate people,they do not ask themselves if they are the problem,they always tell themselves they are not the problem but other people are,they always find fault in others, while they think they are faultless,but the truth of the matter is that they are the ones with fault,they will always cause trouble in the friendship,they always focus on the achievement of their friends rather than focusing on how to grow,how to move forward,all they care about is bringing others down,they don't understand that while they are planning to bring others down,they too will remain in the trench,they won't grow too.
True friends stick by you no matter what,they will be right there by your side but you see frenemies? they are always in the dark whenever you need them,they don't come to the limelight,they always act as friend in your face but act as enemies at your back,that is why they are call frenemies. Whether it's at work or school we always have this fake friends around us,most people want to see you do better but not better than them,real Friends will always believe in you but fake friends believe in rumours,you don't question the intentions of real friends because their intentions are always pure and true but the intentions of fake friends are always questionable.
When you notice that your friend is always bad-mouthing you please get yourself out of that Friendship,it is not healthy for you because they can make your helpers leave you,check yourself too,if you are good then move with good people like you, people that will always be there for you in times of need not the people that will run away after they hear that you need some help. Be cautious of who you move with,who you move with sometimes determine your progress in life, don't get carried away,be CAUTIOUS AND CAREFUL.
This quote came to mind: "Your friend will come and bail you in jail but your true friend will sit with you and say, 'we messed up'". A lot of people are friends with mouth. Their words are as slick as oil but those words cut like a knife.