Decide who you are.
"I don't want other people to decide who I am,I want to decide that for myself" - Emma Watson.
You are the architect of yourself,you build yourself the way you want others to see you,you decide for yourself what you want others to decide about you, don't get swayed by what people say, because darling you are not what they say but you are what you want them to say. The nature of men is to always talk,that is the nature of men, either you do the right thing or the wrong thing they will always talk,so do what you love best, don't let what they say affect your own decisions,you can't live your life to please humans,they can never be pleased,all they do is critize,that is what they are fond of,so do what is best for you.
There is this ever green song that was sang by Ebenezer obey,in that song he said A father and a son was going on a journey and when they got to half of the way they met some people and those people said why are they so dumb,why will they be walking when there is donkey that could take them to where they are going,so the father decided to sit on the donkey and as they went they met another set of people too,those people said the father is really wicked,why will he sit on the donkey and let the son be the one to walk,they said doesn't he know that the he is older and he should be the one to walk,the father hearing that got down from the donkey and carry his son to sit on the donkey,they continued their journey,as they went they met another set of people,those people said the father is so daft, that why will he place his son on the donkey and be walking when he is a old man😂,he should be the one to sit on the donkey and let his young son walk,the father listened to them again but this time around he and his son sat together on the donkey,he was tired already, everyone having something to say,as he went he saw the last set of people and they said the father and the son are really wicked,that they want to kill the donkey,how can father and son sit on a donkey at once,😂,it was very funny when I was listening to the song,it song says you can never satisfy people,no matter what you do they will always have something to say,if the father had not listened to those people and did what he thought was best for him,he won't have been frustrated like that.
Some people are just there to frustrate other people's life,they don't have good intentions, always stay away from such people, people will always critize,it is their nature, always do what you want, don't let people's opinions about you change you, don't let it have effect on you, try to live yourself to the best. Don't let other people decide who you are,don't! Let your decision about yourself be made from you,you alone!.
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