Confront your fear

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1 year ago
Topics: Fear, Overcoming
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"Each of us must confront our own fears,must come face to face with them,how we handle our fears will determine where we go with the rest of our lives,to experience adventure or to be limited by the fear of it". - Judy Blume.

Fear is very dangerous to our growth, either in relationships, business,career or life itself.yes I'm aware that we can feel it,it happens,when we are about to start a new business,talk to someone about something or even in school when you are asked to speak in front of your coursemates,you easily get grabbed by fear,fear will have the better part of us if we give in to it, like starting a new business and you are feeling like how will people react to it,will they buy the idea or goods or they will ignore it? Why don't you start first,the outcome will tell you if they want it or not,but if you don't because of fear,you will never know if you will succeed in it or not.

It's always good to have a positive mindset, even if you are scared to start be positive that when you start the outcome will be great,have faith over fear,keep the faith burning,fear will never allow you achieve anything great because you won't be able to come and do what you are suppose to do,what would you have achieved if not for that fear that is holding you back?you would have achieved alot right? Probably if not for that fear you would have been a great musician, probably if not for that fear you would have been a great actor/actress,you would have been a good chef,you probably would have been someone great if you had step out of that fear and faced it.

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Yes you will make mistakes,you might even fail, I'm not disputing that fact,but don't be too fearful to start again,you would have learnt the reason why you failed before,you would have learnt your mistakes too, forget about the failure of the past and focus on the success of the future. Fear will not only run you of the success but will take it away finally, don't allow fear to get the best of you, don't allow fear to get rid of you but rather get rid of fear,it has nothing good to offer,have faith at all times.

Alot of people die many times before their death because they are cowards, cowards die even before their deaths,they fail even before failure comes to them because they are too afraid to do something, overcoming fear is the best step you can take to start that thing you want to do. Everything you ever desire is at the other side of fear,your own now is to cross to the other side,if you can't cross to the other side then fear is blocking you from reaching that goal.

"Nelson Mandela once said that courage is not the absence of fear but the triumph over it,the brave man is not he who does not feel afraid but he who conquers that fear"

It is a sure thing to feel afraid because we are humans,but we become brave when we conquer it and move forward, confront that fear today and you will overcome it.

#SAY NO TO FEAR#

Question- what will you do if you weren't afraid??

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Fearless isn’t the point. That’s impossible. It’s learning how to control your fear, and how to be free from it.

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1 year ago

Yes, that's exactly the point, to control it so it won't control us.

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Fear is one of the biggest impediments to growth and dreams. It's so much worse cos it wont even allow you to start.

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Exactly, it won't allow you to even take a step at all, it is very dangerous.

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