Are you really adding value in that relationship?

Hi everyone,it's good to write today been the first day of may,2022, quickly we are close to the half of the year,it looks like yesterday when we started this year and there was alot of revolutions for this year,alot was written down by different people,I know my readers are also part,we are close to half of the year,just one month remaining to enter into June,what have you achieved? What is that goal you think you are already close to or probably you've achieved yours, congratulations to you,for the remaining month in the year let us look forward and work towards achieving that set goal,may the Lord help us all, amen.

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Quickly don't let us divert from today's topic,what is your importance in that relationship? Are you just a figure head or you are an asset? Quickly ask yourself that blunt question,have you added value to the life of your partner or you are just there for enjoyment sake. Since you started that relationship,can him or her say you have been a great solution provider? Is the other person appreciating or depreciating since you started your love journey? Are you really adding value?

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Relationship is not just the loving type, it can be related to the boss and employee relationship, friends or family, church members,but today we are talking about the erotic relationship, relationship between spouses,love can be easily said but can it be easily expressed? Loving someone means looking out for that person, always wanting the person to move forward, always contributing to their lives, if you are not impacting the life of your spouse positively then you are not worthy to be in that relationship,if it's only about you asking always, always taking and not giving back,it's a bad omen. One of my mentor once said one good egg and one bad egg cannot make a good whole egg,the bad egg will spoil the good one,the same way for a relationship,if the other person is good and the other one is bad,they can't compliment each other.

What if you are the only one always contributing, always adding value to the life of your partner but he/she is not doing the same for you, please bring the issue up,tell the person about it,if the person won't yield to it and you don't see yourself moving forward in that kind of relationship,you know what to do, please do the needful.

You have a long time to go, marital relationship is not just one year or two years,it's lifetime relationship, missing it in marriage is missing it in all,you deserve to be happy, choose wisely,open your eyes wide, don't let love cover it,if there is no good impact now,it is possible there won't be in the nearest future,talk about everything, don't leave one stone unturned.

1st of May 2022
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