What kind of "lonliness" we feel...

Greetings guys ...!!

There is a moment in everyone's life when he feels lonely. No matter how strong a person is, one day he will break. Some people having a habit of breaking things to reduce his pain or lonliness.

Some people shout to reduce pain. But these type of people have a problem. When they shouted to someone, or to own self then after do shouting, they crying. They crying loudly in alone. These people need someone who understand them. But no, when they not find someone who help them then crying, sometimes in washroom because they not show their tears to others. After sometime, they react a normal person. But no one know that , they are broken from inside.

After these conditions, we feel frustrated from inside. Too many thoughts arising at the same time. Headache start to occur while thinking.

So, how do we get out of these thoughts and lonliness?

But reality is, At this time we cannot free ourselves from these thoughts and we can't out from lonliness. On such occasions,we sometimes engage ourselves in wrong activities. Sometime, mostly people try to attempt suicide.

But....

That's not a proper solution. Don't make any decisions at this time that is much better than taking a decision. It's possibility, that at this time, you will make the wrong decision. For example, this time , some people wants to drive car at high speed because they are in angry mood. But fact is , that's the wrong decision. Some people decisions to revenge at this time. But yes, this also a wrong decision.

Guy's, we all have loneliness.we are all afraid to be alone.

Why do we feel scared to be alone?

It has two reasons...

Survival:

Once, if we dependent on survival ,then we scared apart from our survival. Coz we have nothing without our survival. For example , a housewife leave her husband because he is not good. She take action against her husband but she can't do that why, because she's scared what can I do after? She thought, He's my survival but not my happiness. At this condition survival wins and lonliness burst , because she's scared, that in future what can I do. So she's live with scare all her life with husband.

Happiness:

Secondly, we associate ourselves with the world because we scared to be alone. Our happiness depend on others. For example, we say someone that if you fullfilled my expectations than I'm happy. At this time, our happiness depend on others. And if someone not obey our words then we thought we are alone. If our happiness depend on others then how can we happy by ourselves?

Project of happiness and project of survival is not same things. They are different from eachother

So guy's...you have to been a love, not beg for love and happiness. Somebody who is filled with happiness is to be known as love. Make yourself enjoyable in alone. Make your thoughts positive in lonliness. You enjoy your company.

Always remember that

You are complete. Never think that You are complete with someone or others.

You are your own happiness, never think that your happiness depend on others. You make your life lightly not strongly. Understand , what you are in actuality.

Know the value of yourself. Aways think that You are most important than others.

In this last I just say that:

Do not feel lonely, the entire world is inside you.

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