Sometimes it's okay to be a messy!!
Hey you all!!
It is not necessary to be perfect all the time. Nor is it necessary to pretend oneself with happiness all the time when something going bad in our life. When the time goes bad in our life, we automatically goes into stress. And in that case both the mind and the heart become against each other. And then we don't know what to do to get everything back on track.
It's all messy, my room, my mind, my heart!!
In the past my room was always clean and everything was in place. Because I don't like my room being scattered at all. But my room has been messy for a few days now. When my mother comes to clean my room, I send her back saying I will clean by myself.
I lie in bed for hours and think that life is ever so beautiful that no tension comes. But in a short time, it's like everything can be destroyed. There is a lot going on in my mind at that moment but I don't understand how to write it. It's the pure example of my messy mind lol. I think when person moves towards maturity, life may become colourless. We must never killed our inner child.
When I did a Google search for my condition to get myself out of this mess situation, I came across some points.
Start to live in the present:
If our past is bad, then thinking about it is the most painful process. "Everything gets better over time", we've heard that line a lot. But does everything really get forgotten over time? If we look at that situation in the present, it doesn't take a moment and we start seeing our whole past in our mind like a movie. The only solution is to change our thinking whenever our past bothers us. And to get out of it, we have to listen music, watch movies, take a bath or whatever we want. If life is not compromising with us, then we must compromise with life.
Less screen time:
That's the best option for me to get rid of my messy situation. Whenever a person goes through difficult situation, he uses mobiles , TV, tab either too much or too little. But in such a situation, I less the use of my mobile phone. Because my own tensions are enough for me at this time and I can't afford the tensions of social media also.
My heart wants me to take a break from here for a while. But I have to earn to meet some of my expenses. Anyways every bad time passes and I hope that time will pass too.
It's all about for today guys. Thank you so much for your precious time. I hope you spend your day with full of happiness and prosperity. Don't forget to help others because this small act makes your day very peaceful. Thank you so much my dear readers and sponsors.
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Stay safe, stay happy and stay healthy. Have a blessed day guys..
Yes, true that we should live our present moment with full zeal and should stop regretting on past