Why is bad side often addressed as our "True Colors"

A blessed and wonderful Sunday read.cash buddies!

We will face another week filled with surprises and obstacles. Well, It's time to gear up because this coming week as well is my final examination for the whole first semester, and we have several school works to be submitted within the week too. However, I feel at ease at the same time because finally since the first semester is done, we will have a long semestral break before the beginning of our 2nd semester YAY!

So much for that, it's my pleasure to share my realizations on the tiktok video that I've watched yesterday while scrolling on my facebook newsfeed. She was elaborating her perceptions about an individual's "TRUE COLORS". Even though the video clip was just short, I would say that she really nailed it. She speaks nothing but the truth, and I totally agree with her point.

Why is our bad side often addressed as our "true color"?

Whether we admit it or not, we are blinded by this lame human principle. When a person is showing off his/her bad or negative side we tend to go directly in conclusion that it is his/her "TRUE COLORS". Like seriously human as we are, aiming for perfection is beyond our limits for the reason that we are all born with flaws. We both have good and bad side. We express multiple emotions and nothing is wrong with it because it is definitely normal.

Now lemme ask you something, Are you Okay with this kind of mindset? For instance, you got mad for some reason does it mean you are showing off your true identity? Do we no longer have the right to be angry, annoyed, and vent out our resentments? D*mn, do we need to continually please other people and keep on playing nice kahit magmukha na tayong plastic ganern? When we just made a single mistake automatic true colors agad? Did you get my point? I mean, what about the times when we were good and kind. That we also get along well with other people. What a sad and unjust world isn't it?

As what I have noticed, when a person is modeled with righteousness and all she showed was kindness and gentleness yet from the moment she was in the midst of heightened emotion such as rage, people who surrounds her easily judged and criticized her for showing such negative feeling. What I'm trying to say is that all our positive and pleasurable side was neglected and forgotten and what is more heartbreaking is that only the bad side matters to them.

However, we are not exempted with this matter/issue due to the reason that all of us are victims of this kind of mindset and admit it or not we are also doing this kind of habit to others. We think the worst of others, we then observe and watch out for when that person will messed up. So when they eventually do, we tend to assume and say “see, I knew it!”. Sad but true.

Moreover, it's time to untie ourselves from this belief because it will only steal our freedom to express and show our emotions in a different situations. Let us all stop labeling each other's bad side as true colors because I believe that all people are innately good and bad. It only depends on them which of the two they willingly show to others more often.

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