7 Rules of Life

Just a while ago, I went to the beach and breathe some fresh air like I always did. The thick layers of dark clouds occupy the sky which seemed to indicate that a heavy downpour is looming. as I gazed upon the horizon I saw a fascinating flash of a lightning in the middle of the ocean. A thought suddenly awakens my lame imagination,

"If I were hit by those dangerous lightnings am I going to be a superhero like Thor?". Nah! I'm dead for sure lol.

My point is, "Life is not a Fantasy" because not everyone has happy endings. We cannot just imagine things and expect it to happen.

Nevertheless, I encourage you to ponder and reflect these so-called seven rules of life so that we could guarantee a meaningful life that is worth living.

1. LET IT GO

Our past issues can weigh heavily on our shoulders and somehow holding us back to move forward. If we keep on refusing to let go of the past, it surely prevents us from living in the moment. If you manage to bury all those struggles and start accepting things as they are instead of how you'd like them to be, you'll definitely find true joy and you'll suffer less from the stress, emotional ties to the past or future, frustration and disappointments with others, loss, and succumbing to fear. Letting go the bad yesterdays will break all the chains of pain and sufferings. Be free and start new beginnings.

2. IGNORE THEM

Ignore those people who try to manipulate, judge, and discourage you. You are the master of your fate. Live your life and get rid of all the negative people and things that causes you to stumble. Pursue your dreams even if others contradicts to it, as long as it will not ruin you as a person and you find true happiness and satisfaction from it, just keep on living that desires because you don't need other's approval to succeed in life.

3. GIVE IT TIME

Everything has it's own watch. Dont rush things. If you are deeply hurt, don't pretend that you're already healed and recovered from it, so please stop deceiving yourself for the reason than time heals everything. In short, give yourself time to heal, don't ever tell ourselves to hurry up and heal faster because we don't have the power and authority to control the time we are just mere humans living in this world where the word "change" is the only constant.

4. DONT COMPARE

We are all wonderfully and fearfully made by God, therefore we are created equally but uniquely special. We can't deny the fact that sometimes we try to criticize and belittle others just to make ourselves look or feel better to feed our pride. If you always want what others have, you will never get satisfied and the feeling of emptiness will always haunt you. You may have everything yet it will never lead you to happiness and contentment.

“To love is to stop comparing.” – Bernard Grasset

5. STAY CALM

We all get weary and upset from time to time. It’s a normal part of life, right? But what happens when that anger and anxiety takes over, and you'll become emotionally unstable? One thing that could mend it is to stay calm at all times. Take a deep breath and meditate, think before you react, and slowly release all those negative emotions. See? It may sound difficult to apply but just give it a try and you'll see.

6. IT'S ON YOU

Happiness is a choice, so take control of it. This is perhaps the most significant realisation that you need to ponder in order to achieve true joy in life. If you are relying on others, to be happy then you will likely never achieve it. We have a choice so always choose to be happy.

7. SMILE

Wear a smile because life is too short to frown. Smiling could be our best way to fight and overcome every uncertainties we used to face everyday in our lives and it is out greatest weapon to crush every fear and worries that comes along the way. Lastly, a person who always smile is more likely to have a long life.

There you have it! Don't forget these 7 rules of life, because through these we can have a life filled with success and satisfaction. Life is full of challenges and surprises so brace yourself and be ready for the possibilities, of course don't forget to acknowledge that without God we can do nothing. God bless everyone, and thanks for dropping by!❣️

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