Life is so strange sometimes! You take responsibility of others! And you know you have to fullfill them today or tomorrow!
But what if people think all you do is doing for yourself!! But do they think that I have my own responsibility as well as others one? 🙂
It is so easy to blame others! But in their place, they know why and what they are doing!
Suppose you are watching someone else is providing for your family. If someday suddenly they stop doing it, who will take the responsibility? Of course it should be you! You cannot ignore you family after all!
Suppose your mother is saying " Your father cannot earn more now, he is in financial crisis, he is in stress! You should support him somehow " What will you think at that time? Whether you are a girl or boy, if your family is hoping at you for something, how can you ignore it?
You know that your sister is in crisis, she hope someday you will help her financially to remove her suffering! At that moment what will you wish for?
You know you have a loan of 700$ which you took for someone else! But now he/she cannot arrange it! Who will clear it now other than you?
Right now someone is providing your expenses, someone is giving you all that thing that you need to live! What if someday they cannot do it? Where will you go? Who will you ask for help?
You have nowhere to go, no one to ask for yourself! You have just a life full of responsibilities.
You hesitate to buy anything for you, so that you can give to someone else first! Still people think, you are not good enough to think about others🙂 you are a selfish fellow, thinking about yourself.
But they don't get, when you think that you need to rise a little bit high, you need to earn a little bit more! Why are you doing that!!?Because you have to fullfill all those responsibilities that has been bestowed to you!
You cannot ignore your life, you cannot run away from it! No matter what others understand or think, if you know why you are doing these things, if you are clear in your thoughts. Then it's okay🙂
Just ignore the side talks. If you know yourself, you shouldn't expect someone else will do the same! Your life doesn't look the same from your point of views! 🙂
If you think I am selfish, then yeah! I am selfish to think about my family, I am selfish to take responsibility for my sister! I am selfish to take responsibility for my own self!
And I don't regret any of these. Because I know my intentions very well.
