Anxiety is not being Rude

Anxiety leads to people assuming that you are being rude to them. This is because the signs you are giving them acts like you don't really like them and you hate thr situation you are in. It may not seem noticeable since having anxiety is not really a good thing. It may lead to several things caused by several reasons effecting to several actions.

Here are few things on why people see you as rude and not someone who suffers from anxiety:

EYE-CONTACT

Having an eye contact to a person is not really easy for those who havr anxiety. This is because they are not comfortable in both the situation and the person they are talking to. The fear of making contact itself is so much different. The reason why they don't want to have eye contact is that they will nervous on what they think that will happen next, either you, as the other person, will get irritated or something or the one with the anxiety will get awkward.

FIRST ONE TO LEAVE

If he or she gets invited into a party and manage to go in it, it might sound like finally, he was able to make it. But I can guarantee you that that person will be the first one to leave the party. This happens for many reasons actually. One reason is that the crowded people is a big no-no. The idea of having too much people makes them overwhelmed or out of control. They may think that if ever something strange happens to them, many people will see and witness it.

LAST PLANS

When you invite the person with anxiety in a concert, after-party or a birthday celebration, of course, he will not go or doesn't like to go even though he says yes. In some cases, they might be the one to initiate on going somewhere and starts planning it but ends up the first one to cancel it. This is not because they want to make your excitement go down but they start to think a lot of things that may happen along the way. This includes that they might fall into a trap, get bullied about something or just be a joke to the situation and everyone. They might have an anxiety attack since they don't like the outside world.

TALKATIVE

Even though you might see a person with anxiety sitting in a library and reading books instead of going out in the fields or benches, they tend to talk a lot, especially when the topic is what they like. Personally, whenever I talk to some friends, I have the tendency to talk and talk non-stop. This is because their brain are gives them a racing thoughts. It means that ideas come and come until you ran out of it. You might also notice how ee change topic in a short period of time rather than getting deeper into the conversation. One of the reasons is actually that we answer as if the questions are all yes-or-no ones. The low self-esteem is what triggers it, either we don't really have anything to share or we just don't want to share secrets or ideas.

CALLS AND DMS

Avoidance is what the people with anxiety are known for. Why?, because it's the only way they can cope up witb anxiety. This is actually, for me, is the rudest part of having anxiety. Avoiding phone calls and messages is not really my thing but since I don't like talking to people that much, I just ignore them until they really want to talk about something or we have to do something. The fear of being judged by a phone call or dm is really nerve-wracking.