Dealing with a stubborn child
All fathers and mothers complain about the clashes that occur between them and their stubborn child as a result of his bad behavior and his desire to learn things by himself, as he is responsible for himself and not obeying his parents.
We will now talk about the stubborn child and how to deal with him and when the age of stubbornness and types of stubbornness begins
Age of stubbornness in a child:
Psychological studies indicate that the age of a child’s stubbornness begins at the age of three and increases at the age of four and five.. If the parents better deal with him and act wisely, the stubborn behavior of the child may vanish at the age of five or six. Parents’ neglect and lack of interest in him leads to psychological disorders and aggression The child has and may always continue with him in the future... So we have to pay attention to our children in particular
Types of stubbornness:
Stubbornness When a child is born into this world, he screams and behaves in a bad manner
Acquired stubbornness, i.e. stubbornness that is generated by an emotional experience that a child experienced as a result of his excessive activity
Characteristics of a stubborn child:
Do whatever they like without hesitation
The speed of anger and the recurrence of going through this situation
Not accepting the opinions of parents and others and not accepting their directions
How to deal with a stubborn child:
Taking time when talking to children We need to take more time to make them listen to us and stop being stubborn
Enhancing good behavior in the child .. The child needs to receive praise when doing a good behavior, and that praise helps him to feel safe and to abandon the stubbornness
Respect for the child, as parents must listen to their child's opinions, understand what he wants, and try to discuss them calmly to convince them.
Redirecting the child’s attention by distracting him by calling him and asking him if he wants to play a particular game or watch his favorite program or prepare a meal he loves, which helps to distract him and avoid any unwanted behavior
Simple solution.. Just slaps on their both cheek and boom they'll hear your every speeches.