September 5, 2021. Sunday.
Good day everyone. I hope you are all fine. For today's blog I will share with you what are the questions that are need to be answered for you to be clear at some things that are bothering you about love.
What is love? What do you feel when you’re in love? When do you know that he or she is the one? What will you feel when you met the one? How did you know that it’s the right time for love? What if we fight or have any conflict? What if we are not meant for each other? These are the questions that people tend to ask if they think they are experiencing it, if they are curious about it.
WHAT IS LOVE? For me, love is a feeling that no one can stop, it can pass through everything, even the tallest, widest, and even the strongest barrier you will know because if love knocks on your heart, there’s nothing you can do but just to follow what you feel. Each of us has our own concept of love, if you are going to ask a hundred people about what is love, probably you will gain a hundred of different answers. It is because we have different perspective in love since we have many ideas of love, there is the love for the family, love for yourself, love for the things that you value, love for your friends, and love from someone who is very special to you, but on this episode, we will be talking more on romantic love.
People also relate or compare love to the things around them such as “love is like a rubber band, held at both ends by two people and when one leaves it hurts the other” or “love is like a river never ending a flows but gets greater with time”.
WHAT DO YOU FEEL WHEN YOU'RE IN LOVE? You feel that you’re in love when everything is turning out to be positive, you spread positivity due to the happiness that the person is giving you, you feel so very passionate about everything, you tend to appreciate more about everything. Some people can’t sleep at night thinking about the person that they are admiring so much. Some people cannot control their emotions or sometimes it really goes out of control due to the romantic excitement that they are feeling everything they see that person.
WHEN DO YOU KNOW THAT HE OR SHE IS THE ONE? One time I asked my mom about how did she know that dad is the one, then she answered that it’s just she’s in love that even they were only together for a couple of months, she was sure that dad was really the one meant for her. It can also be that you will know that he or she is the one when you don’t want to lose him or her, that your love for each other has been tested through time, or even if you have been together for a short period of time and you accept all his or her flaws . Some people do believe in signs, so they tend to know if that person is the one if they will be able to see all those signs.
WHAT WILL YOU FEEL WHEN YOU MET THE ONE? My sister shared a story to me about how she met his husband and what did she felt when they met and first saw each other, she said that it’s not more of a spark but rather than more of a leap blood because the moment they shake their hands it’s like the world around them stopped for a couple of seconds and made her think that what if this guy in front of her is the one she will marry and be her husband. On the other hand, there are so many things that you can feel when you met the one, it can be a slow motion, fast motion, or maybe in other ways like being super comfortable with each other, or it can be you’re achieving to be the best version of yourself whenever he or she is around and many more.
HOW DID YOU KNOW THAT IT'S THE RIGHT TIME FOR LOVE? Well, there is no specific place and time for love, you just have to feel it, maybe wait for it but never expect a due date as if there is a countdown. Then when you feel it, you just grab it, there is nothing to be afraid in love. If being hurt is the reason why you are holding back, remember that being hurt is part of love, because everyone in this world has experienced the feeling of being heartbroken, but you need to have it not as a bad experience but rather have it as a lesson that you can bring and apply to your next relationship. For not being afraid makes you more of a mature person.
WHAT IF WE FIGHT OR HAVE ANY CONFLICT? In love, fights and conflicts is just normal, it is created to test every couple on how strong they are in handling hard situations like this. You have to put in your mind that your love is stronger than that problem. One of the things that most couple do to handle the hardship in their relationship is that they put trust on each other that even you are in a long distance type of relationship as long as you have trust and faith on each other, a simple problem can’t break you apart.
WHAT IF WE ARE NOT MEANT FOR EACH OTHER? If you are worried that what if the person you love is not the one for you, take note there are people that you will meet, you will be accompanying to but is not meant for you. Be thankful that he or she has been part of your wonderful life, that they have done a big part on your life for I believe that if someone disappears someone will replace, and it will be better than the other.
In conclusion, love is one of the most powerful things in this world, nothing can beat love, but love is not an easy thing as what the 70’s singing trio The Supremes says, “You can’t hurry love no you just have to wait” So enjoy everything before entering the kingdom of love. For as in general, love can be seen anywhere, at all parts of the world, so spread love not hate.
DISCLAIMER: I AM NOT A LOVE EXPERT, JUST MY OPINION AND POINT OF VIEWS ABOUT THE TOPIC. THANK YOU
