Embrace Changes: Life is Never Static
Life is never static but rather a dynamic process of embracing change as time passes by.
We often hear the phrase "there's no forever" everytime we see things that seems to be perfect especially when pointing about those couples on the street dating happily.
It might be some sort of joke but, thinking deeper, the phrase we said or heard from someone is the truth we have to embrace.
Nothing is permanent in this world, in just a snap, everything we have might be gone someday. It's so heartbreaking to think that what we've used to have will only be a memory when time comes.
Just like what happened to the life of my former teacher.
I don't know the whole story behind their smiles before but, seeing their posts in Facebook and other social media platform I can say that they are living the best life. She is a successful teacher with masteral degree and she's married to a loving husband whose also a teacher with a doctoral degree. They have their two kids and recently, that teacher of mine posted about her third pregnancy.
Everything flew smoothly as they lived in a mansion-like house with several businesses and they can eat whatever they want that all of their friends or followers in social media had been craving for those foods. But, the happiness they felt was gone when a heartbreaking news crushed their almost perfect life. My teacher's husband who recently graduated in his doctoral study suddenly died due to several health reasons. He had pneumonia and hypertension, so when he got attacked by those sickness, he can hardly breathe that made him encounter a sudden death.
We were so shocked that time because few days before his death, we saw their family posts about their bondings and happy moments. My former teacher got devastated and their used to be happy home became gloomy and we can sense the eerie atmosphere. That's when I realized that even if everything good, there will come a time that all of it wil be gone in just a snap.
I hope, they will find a reason to be happy again someday.
On the other hand, there are some instances as well wherein a once unfortunate life became a stable and happy one.
My auntie's family once have a poor state of living. They barely eat three times a day because of shortage in money that will be used in buying foods.
My uncle (my auntie's husband) is a farmer while my auntie is a housewife. My uncle still earned a decent amount during harvest time but, the huge part of that money will be used to support the education of their children who are studying in a private university. Their elder child took nursing course while the younger one took accountancy course.
For how many years, they endure the agony brought by having an unfortunate life. My mom and dad helped them too but, it wasn't that huge enough since my parents are budgeting the money we have since my brother that time was studying in college too.
My auntie's family had been living in agony for how many years but, that changed eventually when their children graduated in college, got their professional license, and found their stable job. The elder child found his job abroad and he is earning a huge amount there being a nurse while, the other child is working in Manila as an accountant and she's earning a decent amount of money too.
Despite being away from their parents, their lives became stable and wealthier unlike before. My auntie and uncle are very happy not just because of the money and material things they bought but because their children are now successful. Aside from that, they never forget those who helped them before. They showered us with blessings as well as to my grandma and the whole relatives we have.
The once poor state of living became a fortunate life now and that's because of the changes they embraced.
Everything can be changed now since we are living a dynamic life. Don't worry when we are experiencing downfall as of now because maybe on the next day, the good things will shine on us again.
The Earth is round and has been rotating on its own axis. Since, it is rotating, we can experience day time and night time on a particular time depending on which part of world we lived. Relating it to our own lives, there will be a time wherein we are experiencing the lighter side of life but when the changes occur, the darkness will soon invade our lives. But, it doesn't mean that it will be our endgame. When darkness surrounds us, don't worry because when life rotates, our situation will be changed into something happier again. That's how life works. It changes overtime and we must always embrace it no matter how hard it is sometimes. We have to learn to be more adaptive and flexible so we won't lose in the game of life.
Everything changes except change, right? So, don't feel bad when changes happened because that's part of our daily living.
Change maybe be disguised as an agony at first, but soon we will realize that it's what we really need in our lives. So, embrace it no matter what.
Everything's happen for a reason we didn't know if a sudden change in our life will bring us to a more prosperous living.
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Date Published: September 19, 2021
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Any moment now our life could change. We have to be flexible to go with the changing times. Once we go with the flow, we learn and grow.