Every mother has a wish, a wish for herself, for her child, and her family. We don't wish for luxurious things, only simple things but sometimes it is hardly given because some family members do not understand their mother's side.
Here are some common mother's wishes, if you are a husband reading this, you might neglect some of the lists below then try to cope up and compensate your wife;
Her children to be healthy
- Every good mother's priority is her children's safety and health. As a mother, we always make sure that our child must be healthy all the time. We always wish that our kids will be healthy always because when kids are sick, mothers never rest we are always on the lookout to ensure they are in good condition even if we deprived our rest.
For her children to grow up with good life
- All mothers wishes for her child is to grow up and lead a good life, we don't like to see our child suffer because our hearts will ache for them and if ever our child suffers if things can be traded we are always willing to trade the position and catch those knives just to not see our child suffer, the mother will always be a mother no matter how old her child gets.
For her children's happiness
- We always want our child to be happy, as I said our hearts will ache for them if they are also hurting. Seeing our child hurting will hurt us double or many folds because we carried them in our womb for 9 long months with care, so it's hurt when we see them suffering.
For her husband to be supportive
- This is one of the most wishful wishes of a woman and a mother to have a supportive and loving husband. It's not easy to take care of everything, I mean the kids and home. Especially for those who are full-time housewives, it's not easy to always stay at home and do the routines repeatedly for the rest of our lives. We want our husband to be supportive and give us a break sometimes, like our ME time.
For family quality time
- Mother's wishes are to have quality time together with family, despite having a busy schedule we always wanted to have a bonding time with family for strong bonds and communication to ensure the family intact, also to feel that we have a warm family that loves each other by spending some quality time together.
For understanding
- Mother's are human beings too, although we are superhuman because we can multitask most of the time. We also have lapses and mistakes, we always wish to be understood in everything we have done and not being misjudged just because we did a mistake. Mothers are always the front and back end of blames especially about how we take care of the house and how our children behave. If our children misbehave we are always the first to blame like, we did not discipline our children and we did not teach them good manners and right conduct. We are humans too, we need understanding from time to time.
For a little unwind
- Mother's mostly spend their time at home, taking care of the house and kids. We don't have a rest day, we are mothers 24/7 even if we rest if somebody in the house needs our attention we have to get up and forget rest, we are on calls that cannot decline if they needed us. Not because we show that we are a multitasker doesn't mean we never get tired, we need some unwind too. To recharge ourselves, so we can serve our family with the right mind and attitude.
For a nice outing with family
- Family outing is relaxing, aside from that it is also a family bonding. Our mother always wishes what so we can relax as well.
For some quality sleep
- As I was saying mothers are like robots we do task repeatedly and multitask every time, we seldom rest and sleep. One of our simplest wishes but hard to achieve is to have quality sleep, mostly we are suffering from sleep deprivation. So we wish that our husband will help us look for the kids and give us quality sleep.
Ending Thoughts
Those are simple common wishes of a mother, it was just simple but sometimes it is hard to achieve. It's not that we complain it's just that we want to be appreciated for the things we do, especially for a stay-at-home mother. Sometimes we are neglected because we don't bring financial matters to the family. We all just want to be appreciated and we want to be taken care of too.
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