Why you hate yourself?

Why You Hate Yourself

Why do you hate yourself to the extent of wishing yourself death?

Anytime you looked at yourself in the mirror you always feel ashamed of yourself because of how Almighty created you.

You always complain about why your nose is not pointed like that of your friend, why you are short instead of tall or tall instead of short?

Oh! Your eyes are too small or too big, your skin colour you prefer others than yours, you are too slim or fat even to the extent of hating the shape of your mouth.

Because of all those things you put yourself under the bondage of low self-esteem and you are complaining nobody likes you as if you also like yourself.

Ordinary ants you can't create and here you are hating the work of most High, he created you in His image and likeness.

What are you now saying when you are hating one part of your body, you are using style to tell Most High that he didn't know what he was doing while creating you, you need to ask for the forgiveness of your sins.

Dear Self! Let me tell you, you see that your nose, eyes, skin colour, etc you don't cherish is irreplaceable unless you will replace it with cow eyes, dog mouth/nose, or surgery, go and ask those people that have eyes problem or leg.

You will know how precious is parts of your body When they tell you what they are passing through.

God did not make mistakes in creating you the way you are, He only created you to express how mighty and powerful he is.

Hating one of the parts of your body Will not reduce his glory or his honour but you are the only one cheating yourself by reducing the glory of God in your life.

Accept the way you are, love yourself, take care of yourself and respect yourself because others will treat you the way you treat yourself.

"Love who you are and stop hating yourself for what you are not"

Anytime you wake up early in the morning stand before your mirror and tell yourself I'm beautiful and wonderful made, I love my nose, I love skin colour, etc.

Conclusion

I salute you that you can recognize your problems.

You even went as far as possible to know the source of your problem and how it started and you got your answer.

I'm glad you now know you have problems but another thing is that you don't know how to come out of it.

You have been blaming yourself like, how can I allow such a thing to happen to me, oh God! why? Am I so gullible that I couldn't recognize what is happening to me is not good?

Dear Self! I know it is very painful to discover you've been cheated by yourself or by others I can feel your pain because I once walked in your shoes.

"The only greatest mistake you can ever make is to be afraid of your mistakes, your mistakes are nothing but stepping stones to your greatness"

And you have now made up your mind to make amend but you don't really how or where to start.

Let me tell you, you don't need to know how or where to start, just start from the point you can recognize your errors.

And start formatting and restoring, don't hesitate to say no to negative friends, don't even think twice to shun that your friends or anybody that always talked you down, it is time to say No to All the Negativities around you.

Oh! I heard you, you say who will you now walk with as friends, even Bible says two heads are better than one but what is the one or two good things that have ever come out of that your friendship? The choice is yours.

To crown it all, retrace yourself back to the source of your life, settle your matter with him, his hands are always wide and open to accept you.

Don't think how far you have gone in the world but think how far he can take you, just empty yourself and He will fill you with everything you need because He loves you and always care for you.

Have a fruitful week ahead.

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