Beyond the process, there's need for clarity of Goal

Beyond The Process, There's Need For Clarity Of Goal.

One thing I have observed about goal accomplishment is that sometimes, the process doesn't go as planned. Yet, success is recorded. At other times, the reverse is the case.

A lot of people might count this as luck, but is it luck?

One thing you have to understand is the need for you to have a clear goal. A clear picture of what you want to achieve, who you want to be and where you want to be.

You'll agree with me that several times, your goals took longer than expected to become real. At other times, you lost hope in ever having it as reality, but as fate would have it, it did.

This is because the process can be altered. The place of the process can't be underestimated in goal achievements and success. There's a need for you to go through a process.

Now, according to your plans, the process should occur subsequently as planned. But, no! Circumstances can cause a change. You might be one step backwards or two steps forward!

When this happens, many believe the end of the road has come. I tell you, it hasn't! It is normal for the process to be altered, that doesn't stop you from doing it.

All you need is a clear goal. Do you know what you want?

Only clarity of goal helps you to keep moving, knowing that there's light at the end of the tunnel.

Only clarity of goal reminds you that what matters is that you become the best version of yourself, not minding the route you will take.

When your goal is clear enough and you're willing to pursue it, even when the road twists, you rest assured that you know your destination.

Not minding, how things go unplanned, keep a clear goal. Don't back out because the road is slippery or the pace is slow. It's part of the process, just keep moving.

Beyond the process, there's a need for clarity of goals.

To your growth,

If the only time you remember people is when you need help, you need to consider your ways.

If you just breeze in and out of people's life when you need them, give room for change.

This calls for attention,  a lot of people have embraced the habit of going into others' lives when they feel like it. Common, you have no authority over that person, so treat them with respect.

Three days ago, I was in a cab on my way home. Behind me sat a lady, nothing drew my attention to her but her conversation with a friend.

It was obvious she was hurt. Someone had reached out to her after a long time. Someone who rarely replies to her messages, now she required her help.

The lady made a statement and I quote: "they will only come to you when they need your help". That got me thinking.

I asked myself "Aderemi, do you reach out to people just because of your needs?"

It isn't bad to ask a friend for help but that shouldn't be your living standard.

You should put yourself in their shoes first, how will you feel if someone sees you as always available? The only thing you talk about is how to solve the other party's problem, after that, nothing more. Nothing about growth and improvement.

Deep within you, you'll feel insulted. No formality. That's exactly how you make someone else feel.

There are some people, seeing their calls notify you of their needs. Your presence shouldn't be associated with problems, such that you are always ignored.

More than having people around you, there's a need for maintaining that relationship. You shouldn't wait till you need help before contacting those you know. Communication should be constant.

Let's learn to treat others the way we want to be treated. Make others relevant. Appreciate them. Relationships are meant to be built, serviced and maintained. One way to achieve that is through constant communication and involvement of both parties.

Know What Works For You

With the little experience I have as an educator, I have discovered that different students exist. Individual differences have made different methods of learning to be implemented.

Some students learn through visuals, audio, audio-visual or texts. Teachers who want to be effective ensure that they know the type of students they have, this enables them to disseminate information easily.

This principle is not limited to the education industry, it applies in all fields. One way to be productive is knowing what works for you.

As an entrepreneur, business owner, the writer you have to know the strategies that work for you.

You don't just get a strategy and implement it in your brand, it doesn't work that way. What functions for A maybe not endeavour for B.

Another thing is that the results you want to get go a long way in determining what works for you.

How do you know what works for you?

Have defined goals,

Trial and error,

Learn from those who have done something similar,

When you know what works for you, there's no need to get pissed off about other people's results.

Keep growing.

I wish you the best this month.

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