What is Better choice?
28-03-22
Almighty God made couples of everything in human , animals , birds , plants to grow , develop & breed its generations. If it not happening , how the population of all grow in the world? Simply it was not possible by natural way.
Yesterday ( Sunday) one of my junior called me and ask about reserves time. I told him come to my home in the evening so he came to meet me. He was looking so worried and depressed. I served him some cold drinks and snacks and asked him what can I help him?
He said , " My parents wants marry me but I hate from this relationship and wants to live single. My next question was , Why? He comes to the point that two reasons why he is refusing from marriage.
Firstly ,
His elder brother married couple of years ago and his wife made life terrible to all the family with her attitude and behaviour. She was educated one but lack of ethics and some complexity made her so bilious. She Couldn't handle the joint family system and balance in relationship . So it ends n divorce within a year . So I am afraid from such situation not to be repeated again.
Secondly ,
I was in love with a girl . We stayed and still staying on that. But unfortunately due to many reasons we couldn't get married. So we command solemnly and adjured each other that we will not marry in our life. We both are disciplined at it.
When I listened both conditions and I laughed because both were unrealistic , unmannered and unmatchable to himself. He says that " sir , I am so worried and you are laughing" .
I advised him that firstly each and every individual is unique with its characteristics and Nature. It is not possible ever that one girl destroy the peace of your home , other will do the same . May other brings more prosperity and happiness then your expectations. Secondly it is not a solution to adjured each other not to marry. It is against the nature and against the teachings of prophets. Staying single for long time create lot of mental , physical and emotional unbalances in our life and in society. People starts avoiding from such person who not follow the flow. He was intentive to me and promise to look into it deeply.
Married and parental life is much better then staying single or become single mother/father because we will flow with Nature.
What is your opinion about it ?
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I am smiling too while reading. Marriage is important because God ordained it but we shouldn´t think it doesn´t work for others, it will not work for us. No, we need to have a better idea about marriage and it´s all about choosing the right choice of partner. We need to be patient when it comes to settling down in marriage because when you make the mistake of choosing wrongly, it will greatly affect the home and the individual.