Things i can't control.

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What are the things over which you have no control? We all have things we can't control, such as the past, the future, how other people treat us, and so on.

In today's world, we all have many factors over which we have no control, such as how other people treat us as i have stated earlier on.

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Let me begin by discussing things that I cannot control on my own;

  • Change.

  • The future.

  • The past.

  • Outcome of my efforts.

  • Other people's happiness.

  • Other's mistake.

  • What other's think of me.

Change.

We attempt to alter many things in our lives, but no matter how hard we try, we can't change people's minds from what they planned to do since they own their lives and are left to make their own decisions. No matter how hard we try to change their minds, they will still do what they planned to do.

The future.

Nobody knows what the future holds for us; we have no control over it. All we can do is try our hardest and hope for the best; no one can predict the future but we can make our future a good one if we put things in place by making our present life

The past.

I wish I could turn back time and correct the mistakes I made back then, but that is impossible because it is beyond my control. What we can do instead of crying over our mistakes is to learn from them and utilize them to improve ourselves in the future.

Mistakes are designed to teach us lessons; without them, we'd be repeating the same mistakes, which would be uncharacteristic of us. Instead, we should view mistakes as opportunities to learn new skills and improve ourselves.

Outcome of our efforts.

Limiting your expectations is a good thing to do; whenever we work and put in our efforts in our job, we shouldn't expect much from it or anything at all; we should just hope for the best and if it does well, that's great; but one thing we should try to do is limit our expectations as much as possible.

We cannot forecast nor control the outcome of our efforts; all we can do is set reasonable expectations.

Other people's happiness.

We can't manage other people's happiness no matter how hard we try since our faces are different, and what makes one person happy could make another person bitter, which is why we can't control other people's pleasure.

Other's mistake.

Correcting others' faults is beyond our control; they must learn from their mistakes and correct them; no matter how much we attempt to manage them, they are always beyond our power.

What other's think of me.

You can't always control what other people think about you; they may think good or bad things about you, but one thing is certain: always be yourself. You can't always control everything in life.

No matter how hard we try, certain aspects of life are always outside our control, and we are confined to the aspects of life that we can influence.

Quote to keep you going; You are loved,you are not worthless,you are doing great just keep pushing and everything would work out well soon just #Believe.

In conclusion.

"It's easy to take a horse to the river, but you can't make it drink from the river," as the adage goes. Certain things are simply beyond our control, no matter how hard we attempt to control them.

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Comments

We can't change the past but we can control the present to influence the future. We need the wisdom to accept the things we cannot change.

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1 year ago

You are right, we can't control the past, neither can we predict the future. Best thing is to live one day at a step and hope for the best.

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1 year ago

You hit every point; the future is unknown, and we can't control the past; all we can do is hope for the best every day, as you stated.

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1 year ago

We cannot change the past because worry or not about what happened in the past, it will never ever change. Instead of wasting the energy of thinking about the past, it is better to look for the future.

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1 year ago

That's correct. We can't undo what happened in the past; all we can do is learn from our mistakes.

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1 year ago

There are a lot of things we can't control in this life, this one you wrote is even small. We can't control nature and its elements like the sun, rain, wind and all others

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1 year ago

That's true....we have alot of things we can't control in this life I just listed a few

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1 year ago

Most of the time as I reminisce about my past I just whisper into the air how I wish I could go back to my past and not change my mistake but stay a bit longer with my dog.

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1 year ago

I do reminisce about my past also but we can't control it btw i can see you missed your dog so much.

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1 year ago

I really do, I just missed his presence whenever I have something go he always tag along which is why even my friends understood how much I adored my dog.

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1 year ago