A friend in need is a friend indeed.
Lead image: designed using Canva. In this journey of life, making friends is certain as we come across different people from different backgrounds, I've come across different people from my primary school to my secondary school and i would say I've spent time with some people who aren't worth spending time with but it would surely happen though. Most people I've come across aren't ready to help me when am in need and once I notice them,I cut of such relationship with them, making friends is fun but we just need to find the good ones to take as friends. In my secondary school days,when I was admitted into senior secondary school,I couldn't make friends easily due to the fact that i was studying everyone and it seems like they weren't meant for me until i was promoted to another class before i found my true friends,they helped me out in everything and I must say that on our last days in secondary school I felt like crying since we wouldn't be going to the same university. It's rare to find good friends in this world as many of them come into our life for a purpose,maybe to spend our money with us and squander it and when it's finished you wouldn't find them again,we need to study our people before we make friends with them,most people don't desire to become friends with us so it's not everyone we should take in as friends. A friend who helps us whenever we are in need is truly a good friend to us,who wouldn't want to have friends who would help them whenever they are in need and give them a helping hand in whatever they are doing. We need to take note of this that friends can make us rich if we have good ones and they can make us poor if we have the wrong ones who are there to squander our hard earned money and when it's finished they leave us alone to struggle again and start from the beginning. We don't need to have thousands of friends,one loyal, trustworthy and faithful friend is ok for us and it's better than having thousands of friends who can't help,many people have helped me times without number and am grateful for having them in my life,I wouldn't want to mention names but thanks to you all for been there for me. Most friends can stay throughout a day without asking or checking how their friends is doing and they still call their them their friends,I have come across someone on here though we haven't met before but I must say he has been a role model,mentor and father to me,he taught me so many great lessons in life while reading his article's daily,I must say he is a man of dignity and a true friend that is worth having he's no other person than @olawalium ,he always check on me to see how I've been coping am using this medium to thank him for all he has done in my life,am truly grateful. Thanks to everyone for been supportive to me,am truly grateful. Be sure to check out my sponsors they are the best I've had so far. Thanks for reading.
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A worthy friend is a gem for all of us. Having such a friend will change anyone’s fate.
Perfectly said buddy... having true friends is a great treasure to us.
Having a lot of friend is fun when it comes on happy times but in such desperate situation you will only few of those so called friends are willing to help up. Glad that you found a friend who has your side in good or bad times.😇
Most friends don't help when you are need,we just need out the purpose of each friend in our life.
Indeed it such a shame that soon after realizing that they are not willing to help it felt like you lose some treasure moments with them
Some people are just liabilities, they won't do anything for you, won't sacrifice for you but will always be wanting from you.
You're right...we just need to know those who cherish us and are willing to help us in times of need.
I feel honoured and privileged, Vic. You've been an amazing person too and I admire your thirst for knowledge. It will always stand you out. Keep at it. Hoping we see soon... How was the relocation?
Hoping to see you face to face, you've been a father to me and also taught me about the good lessons in life,we are still processing the relocation by next month we would have relocated.
I look forward to it.
Awww! I agree. Ola is very sweet and a man of wisdom hehe :) I like his contents and for sure you'll learn from it.
I learn alot from his content and words of wisdom, he's a true man of virtue and an amazing person to be friends with.
Thank you, Vic. 🤗
Thank you, dear.
Good to know that, mate. You have friends like this. You said it right, it’s very hard to find true friends nowadays because we don’t know the actual reason of their friendship through their face. Everyone is snake but in front he is with you. Btw, you blessed to have such friend in your life. God bless, mate.
Am blessed buddy to have amazing friends, though I've had some bad friends in the past but I just cut off some relationship which isn't worth creating.
You did a best job buddy.
The fact is when you need most friends that is when they are far away from you.
You're right...most of them don't want to give an helping hand to us,all they want is to squander our money and leave us to hustle for the money.
I am happy that I have true friends in my life who's been there through my ups and downs in my life. Even if they are miles apart I still feel their presence
Am happy you have good friends who have been there for you through the ups and downs and never left your back... having one true friend is better than having thousands of friends who just show you fake love.
Yes that's true that's why I only have few real friends. I even wrote an article about my real friends
I don't enjoy it when someone is in need and his or her friends act like they don't know what's going on, those people aren't meant to be called friends....
That's right...we need to find true friends who look up to us and give us an helping hand in whatever we are doing,those are the MVP.
There is a saying if you found a real friend, you have found a rare treasure which is very true.
Well said,one real friend is a treasure to us and can help us whenever we are going through a hard time.
I don't have friends that check up on me but I'm happy as I am- a stress free life is better than a life full of friends that don't care. I don't think I need friends, what I need is family!
Our family is one of the greatest treasure we would have in this earth,their care and support towards us is unmeasurable,since you are living a stress-free life I'll suggest family is better than friends.
Friends can either make us or break us, it all depends on the type of friends we keep. Some friends are what we call "fair weather friends", they are only there for you when things are going well, but as soon as you hit a roadblock, they abandon you
You're right buddy... friends can either make us or break us,many of them are there to take advantage of our money and spend with us but they don't like suffering with us to get the money.
This is the most complete and inspiring article you have ever written in my opinion, keep up the momentum my friend.
Thanks alot buddy,am truly grateful