What words of a woman men do not want to understand, but should understand?
Most men do not understand very simple things about women. It is negligence on both sides. Men do not want to understand. Again, women complain that they do not understand, but enjoy that "not understanding".
We have one thing to learn from girls. Any grown man knows that girls don't invite a boy when they jump to make love. Because their attraction is mainly psychological, not external. Women subconsciously value a man who advances, and most men who are leaps and bounds are not considered high value. Hence the high rejection rate.
Both grown men and women also know that girls have the final word when it comes to dating. If they say "yes" it's a relationship, if they say "no" go home. The idea behind this rule is that girls will be passive in the relationship and boys will be active. But now if any girl wants to take an active role? What if he went ahead and offered love to a boy?
Men must be imagining all their male friends saying in unison "Hey, you've got your forehead open!" (Of course yes, if one is worried about the girl's appearance, physical condition or character, she has a different story). No one wants to know whether the mentality will match with the girl, whether you are compatible at all or whether the girl is a good person at all!
That is, men's attraction is mainly external. But it doesn't have to be. At least a mature man's attraction to a woman cannot be 100% physical. Rather, the more psychological the level of this attraction is (of course, it cannot be 100%, at least at a young age), the more likely it is to get into a good relationship and choose a life partner. Because no matter how attractive a girl is, you definitely don't dream of having sex with her all the time. If we exclude that time, the quality of the remaining time to be spent with him should also be good? If someone then only makes trouble, creates bitterness, surely it is not very pleasant?
Some men probably still don't believe that girls can be rational too. They assume that there will be some "drama" when the girl. They don't see it at all that they have nothing less of a "drama". Men aren't the only ones who are rational, and many times those who feel this way may just be emotionally disconnected. That is, their emotional intelligence is low. There is no pride in being so. Not understanding human emotions is a handicap.
It's the same with girls—some can be emotionally disconnected, some can balance logic and emotion, and some can be more emotional. That is, the personality of girls is also different. And that's why there needs to be a psychological aspect to attraction to girls. Because there are good and bad girls equally. So if a girl offers love, don't just look at her exterior, you should also see her as a person. And it should be understood that when the active and passive roles are alternated, the last word should be the other side. Not being judgmental there is not a sign of high self-esteem or high mentality.