The decision has to be taken before love

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3 years ago

The decision has to be taken before love and the responsibility has to be taken after love.

"We often think after building a relationship, is he suitable for me?

He's a little more irritable or he has a lot of boyfriends. He's a little more modern type. Hangla doesn't like me with him, a breakup a few days later.

So the current relationship does not last long

So make a decision before you fall in love, first be his friend, know all the good and bad, then if you think you can be with him for life, then go about it. After falling in love, she has to know how to keep him safe.

The main reason for "losing the favourite thing first" is the importance and responsibility. We do not do 10% of the importance and responsibility as much as we do before the relationship, so the favourite thing is lost.

In fact, once you say love, all the responsibilities for the rest of your life do not end.

Suppose you want to eat or dream of fruit, so you planted a tree but after a few days of care, you saw that it was not bearing fruit, so the caretakers left the tree.

And if you come up with something out of the ordinary, then they have to re-think their position.

'So if you expect fruit in a short time, you will never find love.

And you must know that God sends very few good things,

If everyone could get love or learn to love, love would be invaluable, then the name of poverty would be written on the walls of this city to say lack.

So it is very easy to love people in any corner if love is not on everyone's forehead

You can make a stranger happy if you want.

But if you want to give trouble, you have to be very close to yourself.

Love teaches to take responsibility, teaches to care.

If the sari gets messy when you go out, you can hold the sari, it will not be an honour but it will increase the love.

Even after getting delicious food three times a day, one day a little more turmeric, less salt is not enough to make him smile.

If not, give him a little advance cooking during the holidays and you will see that he will get a lot of confidence.

Instead of going shopping with the girl every two days, it is better to take her for a walk along the river once a week.

If necessary, give him some wood from there or find a wood in the hut. The girl will get more pleasure than shopping for a thousand rupees.

Sometimes at night, instead of the girl herself, she cleaned the bed and hung the mosquito net.

There is no explanation for the fact that he has to have two pillows in his bed every night.

Sleep with him wrapped around your chest.

If the girl is angry, say sorry for the fifth time. If that doesn't work, hold your ears ten times. You will see that all the anger will be dissolved with a smile.

Love does not want money, expensive gifts, expensive food, love wants a little time, a little care, a little time to spend, a little emotional happiness! A relationship lasts only if you can give this much

Again it is seen that in any relationship these first come first then start right, anger haughtiness quarrel, demand decrease and then separation.

It is not your fault here because it is not for you, the one who will stay will be the one who will not be able to stop him from going. Have you ever seen the river stop flowing?

I say, if you want to fall in love, you fall in love according to the calm and cool river which never stops and flows in your mind.

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amra sobai valobasar pore shiddhantto nei.. koyek year relation continue korar pore boli j, tumare r amar valo lage na.. how funny it is!!

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3 years ago

Thank you so much apu for your valuable advice about love. You wrote it very nicely. I just love it.

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3 years ago

Yeah sister you are always right . Very nice and informative article it is . Everyone should read this article

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3 years ago

Apne thik bolecen apu. Asole amader kono relationship a jaoar age apnar bola kotha gulo mathai niye asa dorkar. R akhon to sobai modern chele chai. Koi jon e ba chai j tar life partner ta Islamic mind er hok. Keo chaina. Hajar a du ek jon. Sobai sudu modern khuje but ei modern er maje j sob kicu thake na tara ta bujhe na. Bujhte pare seta onkkk deri te. But erokom to houya uchit na sobaike somoi thakte sob kicu bujhte hobe. Apnar protiti likha amar mon chuye jai apu. Apnar proti ta likha te ami bastobota khuje pai

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3 years ago

We have to think before wwe fall in love with one. Is he right or wrong

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3 years ago

The decision has to be taken before love and the responsibility has to be taken after love.thats true....nice article

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3 years ago

Thank you, nice to read your article. Of course I had a day not to fall in love but she wouldn’t know. Thanks for giving me a gift about something ,? I'm glad.

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3 years ago