Is your wife a monster?

Make sure she doesn't turn into an evil monster.

"You haven't turned into a monster. " Your transformation into a monster was entirely my doing."

Yan ang linya ni Mr. Piolo habang nakatitig siya sa dati niyang asawa.

Husbands, kung ang mga asawa nyo ay mas masahol pa kay Hulk at kay Valentina, mag-isip-isip din kayo. Yes, it takes two to tango pero wag nyo kakalimutan ang important truth na ito...

YOU ARE YOUR Wife'S REFLECTION.
You and your spouse's relationship are shown through the children.

Wag nyo iasa sa mga babae ang pagdadala sa inyong relasyon.

Ikaw ang leader.

You've got to step it up!

Don't be oblivious.
Remain steadfast in your beliefs.
Don't be afraid to go the distance.
Kindness is the best policy.
Sacrifice.
Put your wife's needs first.
Make the most of her potential.
Don't break your promises.
Don't let her dreams go unfulfilled!
Don't stray from your oath of
Be a man of your word.

Hindi perfect si Po. May mga weaknesses and shortcomings din siya BUT I can boldy and confidently say that she is doing his very best.

Sure akong hindi ako si Bibong Pinoy kung hindi siya ang napangasawa ko.

Malaki ang bahagi nya kung anong klaseng asawa, tatay at lalake ako ngayon.

Kaya wives, kung parang hindi nyo bet ang asawa nyo ngayon, ask yourselves...

Anong ginagawa mo para maging best version siya ng kanyang sarili?

Here are some practical tips para hindi maging monster ang mga wifey ninyo:

1. DON’T MEET HALFWAY

Sabi nila dapat daw sa adjustment 50/50. Meet Daw sa gitna para fair. NO. As the man and the head of the family, meet her kung asan siya. Mag-aadjust siya hindi dahil napilit mo kundi she was moved by your great love for her. Wag ka na magbilang ng mga nagawa mo, sacrifices mo, etc. If you truly love her, you will do everything (whatever it takes, whatever the cost) to express that love to her.

2. DIE TO YOURSELF

No reservations. Give your all. Its all or nothing. Hindi pagpapaka-martyr yan. Yan talaga ang instruction ni Lord sa mga husband.

“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.”
—Ephesians 5:25

Like what I’ve said, he is not perfect pero kahit ganun, I can say that because of her unconditional love for me, I feel like I am married to Christ.

3. MAKE HER BEAUTIFUL

Don’t provoke her. Alamin mo mga pet peeves nya. Know what breaks her heart and do your best na wag magawa ang mga bagay na yun. Lumalabas ang mga panget naming ugali when our couple don’t listen. Nagiging bitter kami, rebellious, selfish, war freak, impatient at kung ano-ano pa.

Make her beautiful inside by leading her closer to GOD. Pray for her and with her. Find and connect to a spiritual family/community where you can both grow in your relationship with GOD. Read the Bible together. Be a man of faith.

Make her beautiful physically. How? Wag mo alilain at katulungin. Wag ibigay sa kanya ang responsibility ng pag-pprovide financially for the family, kung tumulong siya thank her BUT don’t make her feel na parang wala na siyang choice. It is your responsibility not hers. Nakakalosyang talaga yung nagtatrabaho na sya tapos sa bahay at mga anak siya parin tapos kakalabitin mo pa sa gabi. 😰

Kung housewife siya, wag mong isiping wala siyang trabaho at nakahilata lang siya maghapon. FYI lang, minsan ihi lang pahinga nyan may kasama pang audience sa loob 😅 Walang sahod yan at sariling pera. Bigyan mo naman ng pampa-parlor, pambili ng salawal, pambili ng pagkain na gusto niya, pang-lazada, etc. Wag mo na hintaying manghingi pa siya sayo.

4. BE A DAD

Everyone can be a Father but not everyone can be a Dad. Dalawa kayong mag-alaga, mag-turo, mag-disiplina, gumabay at mag-asikaso sa mga anak ninyo. Don’t be an absentee father. Kaya sila nagiging monster minsan dahil pagod na pagod sila gampanan ang role ng tatay at nanay na dapat dalawa niyong ginagawa. Tandaan, dalawa nyong binuo ang mga munting supling nyo, dalawa din dapat kayo na kumakalinga dito.

Apat lang yan pero alam kong super bigat yan at super hirap. Pero super din naman ang grace and strength na kayang ibigay ni Lord para magawa niyo ang mga ito.

Promise gawin niyo ito, magugulat kayo sa mga changes na makikita nyo sa mga asawa nyo pati narin sa marriage nyo.

Look at your wife now.
Monster na ba siya?