Do What Your Heart Says
Be you like in any case just be you. Ok Let’s talk about some optimistic stuff. If you feel like eating a piece of cake, just do that don’t look for calories. Don’t. Because if you’re a bit chubby. It’s what you are and you should be damn proud of it. You want to wear something but it’s not fitting into somewhere’s DRESS CODE, go for it. This is what you want. You don’t like something but everyone is just okay with it. Speak your heart out. For you, the only thing which matters is your happiness, your peace. If you want to sit under the sun don’t let anyone tell you it’s tanning your skin.
My ladies, know what we all have put on some masks. These masks are surely pretty looking but they are just making you more powerless in being YOU. It’s time to pull those masks off and introduce yourself to the world. Believe me, people around you don’t give a damn that you’re chubby tanned short skinny or whatever. They just want to shatter your confidence and that’s something they will do even if you are GODDESS. So stop worrying about them. Start paying attention to WHAT YOUR HEART WANTS.
Stay blessed.
True self-confidence is a personal thing, it is not based on what others think of you and how they experience you, but primarily on how you experience yourself! It is a reflection of your attitude towards yourself, it does not depend on other people and circumstances, it is not based on illusions about your own inferiority or superiority in relation to others. True self-confidence is not a matter of feeling, but of attitude, and people who possess it are not afraid of other people's opinions, public appearances, criticism from others, condemnation, they are not afraid of being humiliated or rejected. People who truly believe in themselves, feel fulfilled, calm, whole, do not tend to fascinate others and are not in conflict with themselves.
I remember how difficult it was for me over the years to deal with the many insecurities I possessed. As extremely shy and very withdrawn, as a child I needed to retire in front of others because I thought everyone was better and of better quality than me. At almost some of us, the famous "why aren't you like…", or "why can't you be like everyone else?" Was imposed on almost every one of us. Each sentence, no matter how positive the intention of those who directed them, strengthened the feeling of insecurity, shyness, the need to hide, not to bother… By closing in on our own world, it may be easier for us to deal with sadness or wounds, but in the long run it leads to us ceasing to be aware of ourselves, our qualities, our talents, our emotions, our needs.