It's Never too Late to do This
Have you ever heard the term that says opportunity doesn't come twice?
So, if you have, do you agree with this advice?
In my opinion, there will always be opportunities that come into our lives. Maybe at a glance, the opportunities that have come will not be the same as other opportunities that come in the future.
But if analyzed further, usually the value of the opportunity is more or less the same, it just comes back to us again, can we interpret it or not!
Usually those who are unable to interpret will be stuck and continue to regret the loss of these opportunities.
For example, its dangerous right? If you don't immediately solve this heart-wracking problem.
Well it's the same when we think that many things are too late to be fixed in our lives.
In fact, it's never too late. Because what we are today is the product of the past, and what we are in the future is what we do today.
So, which one do you choose, continue to stare at the bad things or are you trying to change the good things starting from today?
Because it turns out that there are still many things that we can change today. You want to know examples in any field, continue reading the article.
Appreciate Everyone in Your Life
Maybe many things we don't realize that people treat us are a reflection of what we have done. Either to the person himself or to other people.
So to receive appreciation from others, we really have to start with ourselves first.
The formula is like this, what do you think you don't like to be treated like? then avoid doing the same thing to other people
And conversely, how would you like to be treated? Then do the same to other people
Then what if you have done your best but still get bad treatment?
Well at this level you need to set the mindset. that the good that you do is for yourself and what should be noted is that not always the good we do is reciprocated by the same person.
So just think that, this is your good savings in this world.
Be a Beginner to Learn New Things
Don't hesitate to learn new things, because those who are proficient also start from small things, something that can't be and is nothing.
So, is it better for you to use your time to start something new, or continue to pay attention to other people's success and just be an observer?
Admit Mistakes that Have been Made
You won't lose self-respect just because you admit your mistakes, in fact only mentally strong people have the big heart to take responsibility for mistakes in their lives.
So set your standards and take the label off others. Be bold in goodness. Ignore their judgment. You are you, not what they say!
Seeing Things from a New Perspective
Try not to see things from just one perspective.
To do this, you can place yourself as someone else outside the scope of the problem, or look at it from a third party objectively.
First separate feelings from thoughts, ask yourself, Is your point of view correct? Is it good for all parties?
It's best to avoid judging too early. understand more about the situations you are in. Especially if it's dealing with other people.
Stop Pretending and Start being Yourself
Being someone else is not good. You have to keep acting for the label you have attached to other people. Even though you're not happy doing that.
On the other hand, you try to continue to please others and mistreat yourself. Is this action correct?
Whereas other people you only meet occasionally while being with yourself all the time. Do you really want to continue to be in discomfort, guys?
So please love yourself and share that love with others with the right portion.
Improve Yourself Physically, Mentally and Emotionally
Most people are engineers because they are not ready for themselves. He was busy struggling with fears that he didn't want to fix.
For example, feeling fat but not wanting to exercise will end up not being confident.
Or do you know that actually you are mentally ill, but you don't want to treat the pain, accept the wound, hate, and keep everything and then tell the world that I'm fine.
Even though at a certain moment the feeling that you suppressed in such a way will rise and explode.
Or if this point doesn't happen, at the very least, you continue to feel insecure about many things.
In various aspects should be improved. It's not going to get instant results but love the process so you are more comfortable with every breath.
There's been a lot. We've discussed whether there are any points regarding yourself here.
Let's improve ourselves and start everything from this second. see you guys🙈👋🏻
Article : 24
Published : 2022 may 5
Author : Ainsley
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But most people don't respect other people and just want to be respected by others.