How Come Your Hobby is Overproud? Be Careful the Impact can be Bad.

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2 years ago

Topics: Self, Educative, Daily life

Yesterday I was taking a walk on social media to refresh, and accidentally I was triggered by a friend's post who is so proud of whatever is in his life.

Yes, it's not wrong, the name is also advantages and achievements, of course there is a sense of wanting to be recognized. It's just, maybe the intention should be corrected. Because the best behavior is certainly useful for others.

Although basically back again to a friend who saw. If he has a positive spirit, he will automatically be motivated. But if the basis is negative, then he will be jealous and trigger bad behavior in the future. Either to himself or to ourselves.

Maybe a friend here will think that it's his business, not ours.

So, I agree with this statement. But there is nothing wrong if we take care of other people's feelings. The goal is that our positive energy is maintained properly.

Because, it is undeniable that a bad start will end badly too. Likewise with this excessive pride. Oh yea, this attitude is better known as overproud, guys!

Let's see the bad impact of this overproud!

Can Hinder Self-development

An attitude that is too proud of oneself certainly triggers a person to not care about the assumptions around him and always feel more than others.

This excessive attitude makes him not want to do introspection and shut himself off from what is called criticism even though it is constructive.

Well, it's very clear, if it's like this, of course there will be no such thing as developing.

Because it is undeniable that a person's rapid development does not come from praise, but criticism.
Can Create Discriminatory Attitudes

Discrimination will automatically occur if we always feel superior and other people must be lower than us.

Of course, this kind of view will make us less appreciative of other people, and tend to discriminate against them according to the points we set earlier.

Even though there is no such thing as a superior human being, while the others fall into the low class category, you know, because we might be superior in field A, but weak in other fields.

Meanwhile, the people we consider to be unqualified may not excel in field A, like us. but it may even be superior in one or two other areas that are our weaknesses.

So if basically everyone has their own advantages and disadvantages, why don't we just make peace with reality and neutralize our views to be wiser in living life.
Makes You a Star Syndrome

Star syndrome which tends to make someone always feel more than others will definitely make you sick. People seem to be uncomfortable and in the end they even stay away from us.

Remember, we are social creatures, guys! Mutualism symbiosis is always happening. If we are just so arrogant, how can we get feedback from those around us?

Let alone in times of need, even to greet anyone they are lazy. Well, you certainly don't want this to happen, do you?

Then, let's continue a little. So, how do you deal with this over-proud?

Easy! Always return yourself to zero and look at it neutrally. Because there is no top or bottom creature on this earth.

You are already at the top, not at the top, you know, there are many other people above you.

And the one you look down on may actually be on the same level. Maybe in the eyes of others, you are even lower than this person. And this is only our limited view.

So, let's open a mindset and treat others the way we want to be treated well by them.